Do you get along with your parents?

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@BriNbai (912)
United States
September 18, 2008 2:12pm CST
I get along with my parents really well and I always had.Specially with my mom.We joke around and I talk to her whenever I got anything on my mind and she tell it like it is.My dad and I can talk too but he gets alittle more frustrated with me and he always says "OH! why are you so worried!" which makes me laugh. He is more laid back and funny. My siblings dont get along with my parents as easy as I do though..My sister confides in...neither lol and my brother leans more towards mom as well. how about you?do you get along with your parents?do you think it has something to do with your age?
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@mimico (3617)
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
I get around with my parents as well. They understand me and support me and vice versa. LAtely though I've been going through a rift with my mom. I feel like she's getting udner my skin all the time. Like she knows everything going on in my life and she wants to rule it. She just gives me unsolicited advice and she tells me what to do, what to wear, etc it's really annoying. So I'm trying to put some distance between the two of us. It's not really healthy, but it's working. :)
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I think what your mom is doing is under the moms job description. When my mom used todo the same to me I started to annoy her and tried to tell her what to wear and gave her advice she didnt want to hear.LOL it made her crazy!! but i do hope that you and your mom start getting along again :]
19 Sep 08
yes,i get along with my parents,because i think the important thing why we get along is because of our love for each other.my respect to them and my trust to them thats why, what ever happens they will alwsys be at my side to protect and guide me always.
@BriNbai (912)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I am very glad to hear that there is so much respect and love between your family members.:]
• Canada
18 Sep 08
I never felt my parents cared about me when I was younger but as an adult I realize that they did they just don't have a good way of expressing themselves to show how they feel . As an adult my mom and I still don't get along the best . I love her and I believe she loves me but we have nothing in common and are two completely different people . I always enjoy seeing her when she comes home as she lives four hours away , so I don't see her often but if were closer I don't believe we would get along as well as we do on her visits for the simple fact we usually end up in an argument even on her short visits . I am much closer to my dad then I have ever been in my life . Growing up he never talked to me unless it was to get mad at me for something . As an adult I realize this was more because of my mother . My dad has remarried and his wife is great they have been togehter for about seventeen years now and she is a firm believer in being there for your families and expressing how you feel about each other and she has brought my father and I together after all those years of feeling that he didn't care for me . My father and I can talk now without fear of him yelling at me but I try not to tell him to much because he has a bad heart and I am so scared to lose him now that I finally have the dad I always wanted ,because something will happen to him . I don't want him stressing and worrying about what is going on in my life and he lives so far away as well that I am able to keep most of it from him .
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
19 Sep 08
Its good to hear that even though you didnt get along with them in your childhood now you are able to talk to both your parents and even have a good relationship with your dad. I think that things that we go through when we are kids are the ones that shape our futures and even though you didnt like the way you parents acted towards you as a kid.it seems like you are now a really good parent..from your posts and the fact that your screen name are your kids names(i am assuming :]). thanks for responding :]
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
I used to believe we do. I get along fine with my parents and siblings. Everybody seems to be happy everytime we have this "family hour" wherein we rest from all other things that kept us busy like work and studies and just talk and get together as family. But well, things started to fall apart and it was really expected that this camaraderie and closeness I thought we had will fall apart as well. I guess it has nothing to do with age but it surely does got everything to do with situations.
@BriNbai (912)
• United States
19 Sep 08
Some times when we through bad situations and it makes us seem as though we are alone.But no matter what familys always there for you even if at this moment you cant see it.Thanks for your response annd the best of luck
@jfilips (261)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I get along pretty well with my parents I suppose since I work kind of near them. Although I am not as close as I'd like to be since we are a very busy family, each member doing it's stuff and at the end, in dinner which is one of the few times we get together and talk about stuff, everyone is tired xD. I guess it's jsut bad luck, and me and my family should try to make more time to spend between us and share more as a family =).
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I am glad you realize that time with family is much needed. :] its good to hear that for the most part every one seems to get along with their parents.
• India
19 Sep 08
I get along really well with my mom but I can't say the same about my dad. Sometimes he really gets on my nerves. I'd say that I get along pretty well with my parents compared to the teenagers nowadays.
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
19 Sep 08
Its kinda funny how teenagers don tget along with their parents but I dont think its just today im pretty sure its been like this for a long timelol. I think its always a little hard to warm up to dads, maybe its not in their job description lol
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
18 Sep 08
[i]Hi Bri, My sis and I get along with Dad and Mom..We are really like friends this time unlike in our younger years where Dad was quite strict for us and more disciplinarian, but after we finished College, he started to loosen up and we became very very close! ANyway, neighbors will always appreciate how close we are and I remember before, we were only 4 in the house and our neighbors thought that we have visitors because we were giggling and laughing like we are more than 4![/i]
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
18 Sep 08
I started noticing that when I started doing in school and started behaving better my dad started to loosen up too, and then we started to get along a lot better.Well i am glad to hear that you have so much fun but I am glad I am not your neighbor. LOL just joking!
• United States
18 Sep 08
I never really got along with my dad until he was diagnosed with cancer and I helped my mother take care of him daily. When he found out that I was there for him day in and day out, we came to an understanding and became very close. Sadly, I lost him in 1993. My mother and I have always been close. She is my best friend. She is the one person I can talk to about anything and has always been there for me. She is a terrific mother.
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
18 Sep 08
Well Iam glad to hear to that you were able to become close to your dad.It is always good to know that the mother is always the best friend and confidant :] thanks for responding and I am sorry for the loss of your father
@baileycows (3665)
• United States
18 Sep 08
I get along with my dad and step mother just fine. They are great. However as of 6mths ago I have written my mother off and no longer talk to her nor do I care to talk to her.
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
18 Sep 08
Well I am glad to hear that you get along with dad and stepmom.It is sad to hear when someone doesnt get alonfg with their mom, but I am sure it is for a good reason.Thanks for rresponding.
• United States
18 Sep 08
For the most part, I do. I tend to "butt heads" with my dad a lot, though, because we're so alike. I'm pretty close with my mom - I wouldn't say she's my best friend, but, there's a tight bond between us. Overall, my whole family gets a long. We do fuss and fight, but, that's normal :P
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
18 Sep 08
I think thats why my dad and I dont get along as much as my mom and I.I think we are just too alike..but I would never admit it in front of him lol
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
I get along with my mom more than my dad. When i was younger i was really distant from my dad coz he is so strict. He always punished me with every mistakes i did that it draws me away from him. But as i grow older i began to realized that he just did all that for my own good. And he started to change eventually and becomes more friendlier to us. But still i am closer to my mom coz i can say almost everything to her. I love my mom so much. She is not just my mother but i can consider her as my best friend too.
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
18 Sep 08
I have heard alot of people say they get along with their mom too. I am one of those people too. I think moms are just more aproachable and warm than dad..I am glad you now have a better relationship with your dad though :]
@mhrmasum (678)
• Bangladesh
18 Sep 08
Yah i do. when im along with them it gives something that never be expressible in a word.
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
18 Sep 08
I am glad that youre close to your parents :]
• Singapore
19 Sep 08
I don't get along well with my parents, I rather be with my friends!
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
Hi! redwarrior82....I know that some of us here wasn't close with their parents they are more closed to their parents and this usually occur when you reached teenager but remember that the most important person in your life is your parents.
@mkrijos (80)
• Philippines
18 Sep 08
Before i remember Mom as a strict mother with compassion heart, Dad is a loving father, love to go out and ate dine out. He too is a hardworking and great provider. Am i getting along with my parents, yes when i was still at my teenage years. But it slowly came to a point that i dont understand her, when suitors started to visit me, doubt and lies are tools approaching our lives differently. Then i just find myself out by eloping and be away for a year, and i'm back as a mother as she was. They have an open hands to welcome me, but not as much like as my Dad, a gap winning under this roof, later it covers with love, when grandsons playfully keep them busy. How do i get along with my parents, i only know i understand how they felt, because i know now to be a mother, and i wanted my child to be protected from what the world in giving them too much of technology that they should be having, just as Mom wanted me safe. When there is love at home, you are safe, when you are not in your home, and nobody's home, its much too worry to keep the relation going. The age gap is not a problem, its how you treat yourself to be in a family, with a happy family and an example of good family. The relation goes with communication , agreeable in all aspect, problems to share with, solution to keep things going with LOVE and Understanding.
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@BriNbai (912)
• United States
18 Sep 08
Thanks for responding.I wish you the best of luck with all your family adn I hope you can go back to getting along the way it used to be :]
@annjilena (5618)
• United States
19 Sep 08
well i alway felt my father did not love me, when i was young my father beat me he hurt me ,so bad to point i wanted to die.he beat me with fishing rod 2 by fours he wiped me, with drop cords all my life i felt pain when i finally left home i never wanted to go back i was gone 3 years never called home then one day which was mother day i went home they ask why i dont i come around i told them i was busy working i worked 2 jobs i kept busy so i could not think of all the pain that was inflicted on me.well at 26 i got married had my first child tried to heal myself mentally so i could be a good mother.then i found god i talk to god all about the beating i would awaken crying at night god heal me ,and made me whole first i confronted my parents ,then i forgave them they are old now i do all i can for them i love them both my father, could not show love because he never felt love so to make a long story short i forgave them ,we are close now and i respect them and now i can sleep at night because i forgave them iam finally at peace with myself.
@applefreak (3130)
• Singapore
20 Sep 08
i think i can say i get along with my parents pretty well. they are both retired and living with me now. i'll come back from work and we'll talk about things in general. most times they'll consult me about things they are not too sure about. especially when it comes to official letters and stuff, they'll ask for my opinion. i don't think it's about age as my parents are more than 30 years older than me. cheers ;p
@katkat (2378)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
My parents and I are okay but not so okay, were not that close. We talk and laugh at each other jokes but never really got the chance to do some serious conversations. I could say that my relationships with them are at the surface. It never got to the point like a normal parents daughter relationship just like the other kids. I never confide any secret or problems with them. My siblings have the same relationships with my parents; though my older sister has better relationships with mom and dad.
@crazydaisy (3896)
• Canada
20 Sep 08
I was only one that got along with them.I Look after them till they both past away. The family calls me the nurse of the family which I enjoy my brothers say when ever they take sick{call me} thats something when I was sick nobody was here. o.well I am better now!!!!! crazydaisy
• United States
19 Sep 08
I've always had a good relationship with both my parents, but particularly my mother. There were four children in my family. My older sister and twin sister were closer to our father, and my younger brother and I were closer to our mother. I think your parents will always think of you as their child, but as you get older that parental attitude gives way to more of a friendship relationship.
@kavinsh (78)
• India
20 Sep 08
hi brinbai i have always get along to my parents. both mom and dad. i love their company most. i think only this relation is faithful except any other. i use to share everything with my parents. as i can't get in contact with them as i m married in some other city. but i use to talk randomly. take care.