mother-daugther relationship
By nukiperez
@nukiperez (13)
Philippines
September 18, 2008 10:09pm CST
my mom and i dont have a smooth relationship. i know that it is normal for some to have a mother-daughter fight but ours is different. we rarely talk. we were living in the same house, we see each other often, we sit side by side watching tv... but we wont talk. i know that there's something wrong with our situation but i just dont know what it is or when did it started or who started it. i just find myself not talking to her anymore. is there something wrong with me? pls help.
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@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
19 Sep 08
I dont think there is anything wrong with you , yall just need to set down and have that long overdue mother daughter talk, even if its you that starts it just tell her that you feel that yall havent been getting along as well as ou should and even though shes in your life physcially you dont have her emtionally.
I hope things work out and just rember shes your mother she will always love you
@nukiperez (13)
• Philippines
19 Sep 08
gee, thanks for responding.
actually, ive done the planning long time ago (to talk to her seriously about our situation) but havent implemented it yet. i always wanted to get the right/perfect timing but it seems that i am always wrong timing. i also wanted to make up for the lost times. but dont know how or where to start.
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@heaven11 (1159)
• United States
19 Sep 08
well here is the thing the longer you postpone that talk the harder its going to be. you say you watch tv with her maybe just start talking then and if you think shes not listening cut the tv off tell her its very important that yall talk about the problem. or maybe take her out to dinner and talk over dinner but the sooner the better you cant delay the inevetiable
