What if you love more than one person?

India
September 19, 2008 9:55pm CST
What happens if you love more than one person? You love both of them or all three of them or even four of them equally intensely? Why is it that you are only supposed to be bound to one person only? Why can't such a relationship be possible? Why can't it be accepted by people?
3 responses
@Sheepie (3112)
• United States
20 Sep 08
Honestly, say you were a girl and you had three guys who you all loved and they loved you back. Do they know about each other? What I'm thinking is, how great can a woman be to be loved by three guys who would be willing to share like that! I would think a guy has not so much self worth to want to think he could settle for 1/2 or 1/3 or 1/4 of a woman. If the group all agrees and consents to having a relationship like that, it doesn't really so much bother me as much as it makes me really curious to know how it works. I guess it's different if it's the dude with the 3 wives, right? The polygamous marriages are more common in Amish people or whatever? Religious type places, am I right? I think those people might not really have much respect for women because I hear about guys having multiple partners most often. I think I would like to learn more about this, actually. I should.
• India
20 Sep 08
It is not 1/3 or 1/4 of a girl but the whohe as long as you are together. I had a fantasy of having a 1000 wives and all 1000 being equally special and important as though they were the only one. Except for the norms of society, but seriously what is wrong in it?
• Philippines
20 Sep 08
Have you experienced loving two or more person. and have you wished to have a two or more hearts. Try to talk with the nearest Guidance Counselor who could give you an advice more than your freinds can give. The best thing in relationship is to love only one person. Being faithful to him/her make a happy life.
• India
20 Sep 08
The Maharajas in the ancient days had a 100 wives. Were they immoral or did they need counselling? They were all honourable men.
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@Dday50627 (359)
• United States
20 Sep 08
Wow... I was so surprised to see this here. I read the diffeerent responces and all have very bonafide points. Me??? Well, some say it is the BP and some say it is wrong. I don't know. The empathic in me causes me to feel so much ftrom people. The depth of my heart wants ladies to always feel special and beautiful and desired. I think i was given a heart with the capacity I have so that I could love more than one. To love only one is something I did for 20 years. She was my forever love. But from a very young age, I loved more than one girl or one lady. Was I a player? I never saw it that way. A player goes from girl to girl and never really loves any of them. He is out for notches on his bedpost. My heart never felt that way. No woman was a conquest or win. If I told you I love you, then trust in my words... I loved you." And I can love more than one woman at the same time and feel as deeply for one as the other or others. In my perfect world, smiles soft, I would love many woman and treat them with the same caring and same loving and give to them all of myslf while i was with each. Never having to worry about calling out anothers name at the wrong time because I would be and am totally with the one i am with at that moment. No thoughts of another woman because my heart is the ladies I am with right then. Truly and deeply. Giving to her my deepest love and best love making and knowing that she is special in my heart. Love is forever to me and I have never forgotten a single lady I have sid I love you too. I don't think it is wrong to love more than one lady as long as you truly love them, treat them right, let them know they are beautiful and special and always, always tell them so...