True friendship between boy and girl possible ?

@NrgDfenZ (1810)
Belgium
September 20, 2008 1:01pm CST
Hi all I recently read that friendship between a boy and girl is not possible if he or she wants more than just to be friends.. This got me thinking and I think it is true.. When the boy or the girl wants a relationship or something else and the other doesn't want it than I think it isn't true friendship :) But what do you think ? Is true friendship between a boy and girl possible ? Have a nice day..
3 responses
@risris24 (712)
• United States
20 Sep 08
I think it is possible, but i do not only think that but know that. Throughout my life I have been friends with more guys than girls and some of them either had crushes on me or me on them at some point in our friendships, which is normal as teeneagers. However now in my late 20's, i have come to realize the true importance of friendship and to also accept that certain relationships in life are not meant to be more than that. But if that person means so much to me, I rather be able to call them a friend than nothing at all.
@twoey68 (13651)
• United States
20 Sep 08
I think they can but if one wants more than friends it can lead to problems. I think if your going to be friends with someone of the opposite s*x then you need to evaluate the relationship as you go along and make sure there is nothing more than friendship. If something else grows out of the friendship, I'd consider it a bonus...if not, then you still have the friendship. [b]**AT PEACE WITHIN** ~~STAND STRONG IN YOUR BELIEFS~~[/b]
@brisk123 (2826)
• India
20 Sep 08
Well,I don't know about others opinion but I say, it is possible.Many say that guy and a girl can never be just good friends but yes,it is possible,I have two good friends and they are both my only two best friends and they are guys.We have had known each other for almost 8-9 years now.We share a good relationship and we have a very strong friendship bond.People said so many things about "We three" but we never bothered.We continued our friendship,even my cousins doubted me at first saying "how could a guy and a girl be so good friends?"..I used to simply laughed at them.Now,we are in different states but we still maintain our friendship and keep in touch with each other.