Best Friends

United States
September 20, 2008 8:16pm CST
Is your best friend someone you talk to all the time or someone you only talk to once in awhile? I have both. I have like 3 best friends that I only talk to once a month or even once every other month. Then I have like 4 I talk to all the time. Is that weird and yes I have that many best friends. I have very few just friends most of my friends are best friends and I consider them family. They are invited to all family get togethers and I spend holidays with them.
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12 responses
@yenwie84 (1344)
• Malaysia
21 Sep 08
I only have a few friends who I can consider as my best friends. But I only talk to them once in a while because all of us are staying at different places. Sometimes,it's hard to contact with them. All of us have different life style,sometimes it's hard to find a common topic which we can really chat about. Maybe this is the price of growing up. Lol.
• United States
21 Sep 08
I think I agree with that. We all have such different life's and way different schedules and well the 3000 miles doesn't help either.
• Philippines
21 Sep 08
i have only one best friend, we been together many many years until such time comes she got married to an American and they live in USA for good times so different now we talked once in while in the phone, shes busy in her life and life changer with her coz shes now miles away from me...
• United States
21 Sep 08
I can understand that one...
@danram (49)
• Malta
21 Sep 08
it is a really good thing to have a lot of friends. friends are important in our life, they can help us in hard time and can enjoy time together during good time. best friends are important too because you can talk with them whenever you want and about everything. everyone should have best friends because they are like family.
@yadav8797 (1211)
• India
21 Sep 08
hi friend, all my friend are of very good friends.and mostly of them are best friends. i like to do in both ways as talking all the days or talking sometimes as the requirement of time.so,nothing to be worry.friendship is a relation of trust which made by god to make to people alike or they can understand each other better than the others,this relation can possible between two boys or girls or may be boy and girls.i like my friends very much happy mylotting.
• United States
21 Sep 08
I agree with the best friend part, but I don't think having a lot of friends is always good, it gets complicated.
@hellcowboy (7374)
• United States
21 Sep 08
I have two best friends one is my fiance who lives with me at my parents house and I talk to her every minute of every day,which makes me happy,because I love spending every minute with her,and I am sad whenever I am not around her,as I am sure she is sad when she is not around me,my other best friend is a guy I consider my brother I met him in school,and when we found out we both have the same birthday,event though I am three years older than him,we just kind of became best friends,and we have been best friends since,and I will do anything for him,just like he will do anything for me which is the way it should be.
• United States
21 Sep 08
I think that is awesome, closeness like that is hard to find.
@NrgDfenZ (1810)
• Belgium
21 Sep 08
My best friend is a girl.. I can tell her everything and she can help me with my problems. I can't do that with my mates :D Have a nice day..
• United States
21 Sep 08
Thats awesome. Thank you for your response.
@acegirl (127)
• China
21 Sep 08
I don't have many bosom friends.I supppose i only own three,maybe. One of them is really my best best friend. We have known each other for about 8-9 years. And there's no secret between us. Though we are apart now, i mean at different schools in different cities. But we still keep in touch with each other all the time. She helps me out while in trouble. I'm grateful to her really really much. And the other two are also very awesome. They act as if they are my bros or sisters. But I look on them not as so important as the first one. What I'm trying to say is,however, regardless of who they are, there's no doubt that, they are my bosom friends.
• United States
21 Sep 08
It's good to have friends and it's also better to have quality rather then quantity, where friends are involved that is.
• Philippines
21 Sep 08
I have 3 bestfriends since college. Up until now they're my bestfriends. We treat each other like brothers and sisters. We are not afraid to correct or advise each other when somebody goes astray or has done something wrong. Although we dont often see each other, we always communicate through text messaging. And eventhough they have other friends especially in med school, we are still bestfriend in the heart, that is how our bond called, "friendship" is strong. :)
• United States
21 Sep 08
I am glad to hear that, life is all to short not to have close personal friends.
• India
21 Sep 08
hi i have 4 best friends with whom i talk frequently with 2 members and remaining 2 i talk with them monthly twice. i have no difference in between them all are equal though we may not talk frequently. we share all the feelings in the weekends.
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
21 Sep 08
Best friend is someone who can be there for you at good or bad times, if they're really true. Someone not just wipe your tears but feel the pain you are into. I really have great best friends ever! Our friendship have been tested a lot of times. Through thick or thin, we are there for each other. Either financial or emotional we are always there to support each other. We accept each other's differences. We are more like sisters!! When I was still in the Philippines, I spend more of my time with them all day! We just hang out, go anywhere, do something,etc. Now that I am in the states, we still tried to communicate and update each other with out activites in life. Lovelife or career. I have friends in Florida and Georgia whom I consider my best friends too! They're really great! And I am looking forward to meet and spend time with them!!
• Pakistan
21 Sep 08
Best Friend! In today's world friend is hard to find 'cuz every could not be a friend. Friendship is name of trust, feelings & understanding. So, "best friend" means more trust, much feelings & perfect understanding which is difficult to find. But if you have any such friend, i request you to please take care of him. Sometimes friends are more then your family or anyone in world because anything which you can't talk about with your parents, you can tell your friend. Friendship is a precious gift of God. Abdul Wahab Khan
• United States
21 Sep 08
I have actually 2 best friends. One of them I talk to on an every other day basis as he lives in another state. However, my other best friend, I see and talk to her every day. Since she is my twin sister, we still have a strong bond and that makes us best friends forever!
• United States
21 Sep 08
I have also had both! But I have had the same best friend for the last 8 years and we have always been very close we went through 6 years were we talked and seen each other daily (we even worked together) But she got married, had a baby last year, she also graduated from college and is a nurse so her schedule is really busy and I don't get to see or talk to her as much as I use to! Its more like once a week now! But thats ok because I am pretty busy with my kids at the moment!
• United States
21 Sep 08
ya me and my friends are similar, we have all known each other for about 15 yrs and are quite busy with our married life's.
• Philippines
21 Sep 08
for me best friends are always there for you regadless of time and place but it helps to make friends with other people to keep up with the time and sometimes you need someone for a talk to share too.