have you ever thought

at times i wish my kindness - wouldnt bring others to saying i wasnt ... this only happens when i'm thinking of there well being ...because i care for them ..it seems when i care for someone they make it sound like i'm not a friendily person ?

when i have concerns for my girls ... just like if they disrespect and yell at people , talk load , and cuss ... i tell them to lower their voice , do not cuss -its not nessary ... i tell them thats for the streets not here in my home ... then i ask them where they learned that becuase it wasnt from me or per say i want one of my girls to finish school graudate .... from high school , just because she turned 18 yrs its big time disrepecting me .. she calls me outside my name ... tells me i dont have to worry about her shes grown etc ... and all i want her to do is graduate

Can you tell me a story about this. I can't understand why do people think you are unfriendly when you are caring of them. What is your action when you want to show that you care someone?

well when im friendily and care for someone ... and let them kow i do care ... they act like im the worst friendily person in the world ..just because i care ?