Guy I like, likes my friend more...

@mimico (3618)
Philippines
September 21, 2008 1:08am CST
This isn't exactly a love problem. It's more of a friendship problem. But there's this I like to hang out with who also hangs out with my friends. I 'had' him first you know, but now it seems like he only wants to hang with me because of my friends! He even dated one of my friends for a while. Thank God it's over! Now he's getting close to another friend of mine and they do things without me! I'm really jealous I don't know what to do...:(
3 responses
@fornits (44)
• Philippines
29 Oct 08
I think you're into him. You just don't know it yet. And I promise you, one day, you will. And this thread will then become a "love" problem. I've seen this before, it never fails. Good luck and keep me posted. Hehehe.
@mimico (3618)
• Philippines
1 Nov 08
Oh yeah? Well the good news is that he doesn't seem into her anymore. Yay! I don;t know if I like him at all. it's a weird feeling. Sometimes I like him, sometimes I don't. It's really hard when I become close to guys huhuhu
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
"weird" feeling? "sometimes i like him sometimes i don't"? sounds like you're into him already. i never expected it to be so soon. but don't worry, it's okay. let it go. there's nothing wrong "liking" someone. the important thing is, you should act now before it's too late.
@Nhey16 (2518)
• Philippines
3 Nov 08
we all have our crushes... maybe you just admire the person, but not necessarily you want him to be your partner... that situation happened with me and my friend when we were in our high school days... we both had a crush on one boy and she was the one who likes him so much, but it came to a point, the boy was courting me and not my friend... (though i never said "yes" to him)... my friend and i are still friends and i could say that she is my best friend. in your case, its normal to be jealous but you could go out with other boys, you might not know, your special someone is just out there waiting for an opportunity for you to meet him... :)
@mimico (3618)
• Philippines
7 Nov 08
true true. thanks for the advice and thanks for sharing your experience with me. :)
@ronaldinu (12439)
• Malta
21 Sep 08
It's a normal feeling to feel left out when a couple starts dating. Unfortunately you cannot stop the circle of life. It's a natural thing that when a boy and a girl gets attracted to each other they want time alone to enjoy each others company. So don't be down about it. Seek other friends, extend your circle of friends.
@mimico (3618)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
Huhu it would suck to lose a great guy friend like him though! He's one of the few guys I get along with. I've never been close to any of my guy friends because they seem to like to hang out with their group. This friend in particular doesn't mind if he's the only guy in our group. But when he starts becoming unavailable because he's out with a girl who happens to be my friend then it's not so wonderful anymore... :(