do you care about other people think

@clarkmy (428)
China
September 21, 2008 11:04pm CST
do you care about other people think? sure. we all do ,we all want to other people to think we are cool,smart ,attractive,and fun.but everyone is not going to like you ,what do you do ? get over it?
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@psalmist (109)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
of course we do care about what other people might think about us. Or me i care about what they say about me.but thats there personal opinion. what they think is not necessarily what we should be also... In some instance we do want to know waht they think, for us to have ideas what to improve... that's all that matters...
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@clarkmy (428)
• China
22 Sep 08
thanks for your respond ,yes ,we needn't to care about other people 's idear about us, we just ignore evile words and more pay attations to pleasure words,then you can happy everyday
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@eiram25 (1076)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
i do care about what other people think of me. but then again,there's that cliche that you can't please everybody.so,on my part, i try to be myself while making sure that i'm not affecting others in a bad way. of course, i do listen to what others have to say about me but that depends if it could help me or not. happy mylotting!
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@clarkmy (428)
• China
22 Sep 08
thanks my friend .you are right,we couldn't try to other people like ourselves,don't try to impress people,just do yourselves? keep in touch,;pleasant,
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@skbh12 (2946)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
[b]hi clarkmy! i only mind how others who react negatively towards me especially when they are not true. well, i just don't really do anything. i just express what i want to tell them thru a blog haha! as far as i can avoid having conflict with these types of people, i would do anything to be able to express my feelings. happy posting and happy mylotting![/b]
@clarkmy (428)
• China
24 Sep 08
hi ,my friend,i am glad to see your response , from you said ,i think everyone should set up confidence to believe other actually no other meaning ,maybe they taiking you because you are a center man ,and that is prove you are always attractive ,hehe ,, happy with you ,we don't need to care about others thinking ,you are right , wish you everything ok..
@bamakelly (5191)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I would like to say that it doesn't bother me what others think but in truth I really do. I think that it is just a part of human nature to be concerned if other people care or what their opinion of us is. I understand that not everyone is going to like me but I feel that I am a pretty easy going person and I am a giving person by nature and that is all I can do. Take it or leave it. When I was a lot younger I felt it important to be accepted by everyone. I think that it is a basic human need for everyone to feel wanted and accepted.
@icelus (20)
• China
24 Sep 08
I'm with you!
@clarkmy (428)
• China
24 Sep 08
i agree with you ,maybe we should study baby;s spirit ,have you ever wondered why everyone loves babies?it is paintly because babies don't care whether you like them or not ,babies eat ,scream,make noise,and make smeil.and they don't care isn't it fascniating
• India
22 Sep 08
ya i do think a lot that what people would think about me...but always we cant think about others and do everything...it depends on certain matters and certain situation...as we live in society we should think about all those things..thats what I feel...
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• Canada
22 Sep 08
Hi! I used to care about what people thought about me, right to the point where I was extremely self conscious and very shy. I wouldn't talk because I was afraid I'd say the wrong thing, I didn't like to walk in front of people because i felt they were judging me physically. Then one day I realized that nobody around me is perfect! Everyone has their faults and imperfections. I believe the day I gave birth to my first son was the day I really lost most of my pride! Since then I try to be myself and if people don't like me the way I am then I really don't need to associate with them. If everyone liked everyone else what a great world this would be...
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@SangsTurks (1444)
• India
22 Sep 08
No i dont care about what people are going to think about me. I do what i think is right for me and my family. I do not exist to please everybody. I might sound as i am shelfish but that is the way i am. It is impossible to please everybody around you and people have a tendency of talking about somebody or the other , so wether you do the right thing or the wrong , they woud eventually talk about you too.
@clarkmy (428)
• China
25 Sep 08
thank you for youe kind respond , i think you must be a optimistic person ,and i really appretiate it your spirits, and you said is all right ,you often pay atteion other's thoghts too much ,it make you very tired ,we should have our personality. nothing matters but finally the states of mind of individuals, thanks so much for give me your time .
@msedge (4011)
• United States
28 Oct 08
I do care about other peoples feeling.So i try to avoid hurting them.But i don't care about what they think of me.I have to be what i am.Either they like me or not,its not my problem anymore.I never pretend.What they see is what its me.
@maslina (23)
• Malaysia
25 Sep 08
I do not want to care, but somehow I do. I don;t like it. I want to be a person who doesn't bother what other people think of me, but it so difficult. Therefore I always said to myself, why should I bother with what they think, it's not they give me food for my stomach.
@dunnote (19)
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
Nope. They could judge me as is whatever they what that's their right and i leave it to them. But for me, I'll live my own life as the way i wanted it to be.