If a guy is good looking, is he automatically a potential player/cheater?
By rosedust82
@rosedust82 (2066)
Philippines
September 22, 2008 4:27am CST
I know there will be people who'll react to this but it's a question spurred from curiousity. I just want to know what people think about this. I just finished responding to a discussion on looks and it crossed my mind that people here where I come from think of good looking guys as potential "players" or worse, as a main source of headaches for girls. Lol. 
Before, whenever a good looking guy would court, friends would tell me to "be careful", that he might have several other girls in line. Although there were times when my friends were right. There were also times when they weren't.
There are a lot of guys who are cheaters by nature, regardless of how they look. Sometimes those who aren't that good looking are the ones play around a lot. I know there are also some guys with good looks who are really serious when they court.
I just want to know, in general, do you think good looking guys deserve this tag? For guys, you can also tell me what you think about girls having good looks and being potential players as well. 
Before, whenever a good looking guy would court, friends would tell me to "be careful", that he might have several other girls in line. Although there were times when my friends were right. There were also times when they weren't.
There are a lot of guys who are cheaters by nature, regardless of how they look. Sometimes those who aren't that good looking are the ones play around a lot. I know there are also some guys with good looks who are really serious when they court.
I just want to know, in general, do you think good looking guys deserve this tag? For guys, you can also tell me what you think about girls having good looks and being potential players as well. 5 responses
@checapricorn (16061)
• United States
23 Sep 08
[i]HI rose,
NO..I have known a lot of good looking guys who are "a one woman man" and a number also who are cheaters by nature and same scene to those who are not physically attractive!
We really need to know the person better before we will know them and for those who are courting, we can always feel the sincerity of the person once we will know them, we just don't need to trust easily![/i]
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@deathvans (301)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
Well for me.. It's still depends on the person.. You can't judge them just by looking at them.. ^_^ You must know them deeply.. maybe some say that, it's because they're just insecure with themselves.. I think that's why.. ^_^
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@Ravenladyj (22904)
• United States
22 Sep 08
Of course not..i have known a few really hot looking guys and gals who are some of the sweetest ppl I've ever met...Very humble, kind and being "players" is something that wouldnt even cross their minds let alone them actually consider it or behave that way..
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@sushihunk26 (196)
• Philippines
22 Sep 08
I disagree but at some point, guys who are so attractive can be tempted to be a player. it really depends on the person. In my opinion, An attractive person must not be judged by his or her looks alone. I also believe that there are plenty of goodlooking guys who still value true love and fidelity.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
22 Sep 08
Well... I always said that we shouldn't judge a book by it's cover, the good looking people guy are not necessarily a potential player/cheater because I have some friends who are good looking but in love life, they are totally loser. LOL. I think it just happened in some good looking guys who are totally aware of their condition of being good looking and know how to use it, and I believe not all good looking guys are given such a 'gift' to be able to use their benefit of being good looking to hook on many girls.
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