I have a big problem: I'm pregnant! Can you help me?

Romania
November 6, 2006 7:08am CST
I have a big problem: I'm pregnant! Can you help me?
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76 responses
@jezabel (283)
• Canada
6 Nov 06
What exactly do you need help with?
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• Romania
7 Nov 06
i need help to make the best decision
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@anushri (961)
• India
6 Nov 06
whts problem in tyht give birth to the child but dont abort the sweet little baby
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• Romania
7 Nov 06
i'm sure, thanks i don't abort my little baby
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@sweetdesign (5151)
• United States
6 Nov 06
How old are you? Are you married? If not are you still with the father? If you don't think you can raise this precious child I would suggest you start looking into adoption there are many couples out there and single people who would love to adopt a baby (me being one of the singles would love to have another child but at age 35 not sure I would want to go through pregnancy again).
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• Romania
7 Nov 06
i'm 21 and i'm not married i'm with the father, but we didn't plan this baby. but now is i'm sure: i don't abort and i don't give in adoptation my little baby. i thinh i will be a good mother
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• United States
12 Nov 06
It sounds like you have already made you decision. I think you want this baby and you are older than I was when I had my first child. I had my first on my 19th birthday. You will be fine.
@sierdij (853)
• Philippines
6 Nov 06
why don't you like to have a baby?It's better to tell your family and ask their opinion about this.
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• Romania
7 Nov 06
i would like to have a baby, but not now. i'm 21 and i'm a student. i live with my boyfriend 3 years ago and we don't planed this baby. it's sure. i don't avort this baby.
@Aali311 (6118)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I think you shoud keep it.
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@fianne (1058)
• United States
15 Nov 06
just keep the baby... it's just at the first that you will have troubles but when you feel your baby moving inside your tummy, and especially when he's born you'll say, it's a blessing...
• India
6 Nov 06
no
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• Romania
7 Nov 06
thanks
• India
6 Nov 06
first of all are u married or not if not its a big problem
• Romania
7 Nov 06
i'm not married
• United States
6 Nov 06
What kind of help? Do you not want to be pregnant, don't want your family to know, or you all alone, married, seperated, what? Please, seek professional help or counseling to help you through this. If you are going to keep your baby which you should ask God to help you and direct you. God Bless I will be praying for you.
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• India
6 Nov 06
pregnanat - pregnanat
What is the problem dear with pregant it will vary from case to case u should describe the actual problem ...
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@tundike (989)
• Romania
6 Nov 06
And what??? It is a very good thing
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@J_peso (2434)
• United States
6 Nov 06
abortion pictorially(click on it to view properly) - its partial abortion
hmm congrats at getting pregnant .....whats the problem with being pregnant its a simple decision u gototo make ....can you afford the babty? if yes keep it ....if not abort it you dont want to be like the woman in "in the ghetto" song by elvis"As the snow flies On a cold and gray chicago mornin A poor little baby child is born In the ghetto And his mama cries cause if theres one thing that she dont need Its another hungry mouth to feed In the ghetto"So be practical and make the decision .......
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• India
9 Nov 06
what he said is also to be concerned.
• United States
12 Nov 06
Oh my gosh, that abortion slide show is awful! How can anyone, even the doctor, do that? I want to cry!
@ZowieR (942)
• Canada
9 Nov 06
its not a bad thing, its a blessing in discise, im 21 too and I have a son. just get your self prepared for labour and a new baby by reading. and use coco butter every day to help your strech marks.
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@ZowieR (942)
• Canada
9 Nov 06
were not married either but were working on baby #2, dont let people twll you who you should be, (like married then have kids crap)Imbrace life and do what you feel is right! Everything will work out in the end
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@Moji_mj (92)
• Kuwait
9 Nov 06
just wait till 9 months and u will see thats not a problem its ur luck that u can have baby!
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@braka78 (63)
• Indonesia
9 Nov 06
Don't worry . First you 've got married. second you raise your baby. I believe you will be able to raise your baby
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@pondlife (468)
7 Nov 06
I think that you just wanted to talk this thru which is great. Just remember that whatever you do it's your decision. I'm sure that your friends and family will be there for you in the end. You're a beautiful woman, your boyfriend is very lucky and he should feel that he is.
@tajul24 (38)
• United States
7 Nov 06
Please keep your baby !
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@Aali311 (6118)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I don't think you have a problem I think you were blessed, keep the baby it will be the best thing to ever happen to you.
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@iamgen (160)
• United States
7 Nov 06
i don't understand what the problem is. you won't give your child up for adoption and you don't believe in abortion (neither do i, thank you)..so what is there to need help with? you're obviously going to have and raise this baby on your own.
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@saphire539 (1641)
• United States
7 Nov 06
I wish you and your boyfriend luck with your new baby.I am sure everything will work out for you in the end.
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@johnwat (382)
• India
7 Nov 06
r u really pregnant or kidding (what type of discussion is that look out ur future and ask ok) u should ask to ur husband and friends or somebady (bye take care ) as a best friend i can help u! ok I will put every thing i had to help and take to nearest hospital and i will not live till u r ok and mean while i will takeing care of u r u really a pregnant beautifull lady? ha ha ha ha ha its just a reponsed frm me. i am helping my friend every time they r in problem.
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• Portugal
7 Nov 06
A son it´s a beautiful thing you don´t have to be upset, it happens, isn´t planed but still it´s the most beautiful thing in a world. I always want to be a father. Me and my wife want a baby, but he arrives when we didn´t expect, and still we love him a lot, so if you and your boyfriend think that you are not ready, think that a child it´s a gift that some want and never will, so God bless you and your child.
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