love/trust

United States
September 22, 2008 2:09pm CST
how many people out there put their trust in someone and then get their heart broke and do it over and over again not knowing until later??.
3 responses
@lynnemg (4529)
• United States
22 Sep 08
I went through that cycle myself.The difference is that I actually noticed the pattern and still kept going. I just decided that I had to take the chance if I ever wanted to find "Mr. Right". The hardest part was not comparing him to all of the ones that broke my heart. In hindsight, it all made me much stronger.
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• Philippines
27 Sep 08
Hi! I can't count how many but it depends on them whether they'll put themselves in the "martyrdom" situation or just dating for a while without taking their relationships seriously with someone they're going out with. It's like a cycle. One gets to fall in love, gives his/her trust to someone he loves, still loves and endures pain even if their significant others cheat or if they have a major fight about something, doesn't wake up to reality about being a loser, until he/she realize that how a big fool he/she's been when the break up happened. He/she moves on later... then finds a new love again. This is process of falling in love and getting hurt and moving on, you'll just have to search again for someone who's compatible with you, who has the same feelings that you have for him/her and who shares the same point of view with you. Happy Mylotting!
• Philippines
23 Sep 08
believe everyone gets into that point of giving away their all and get devastated...its life stage i guess..some learn some don't...i am one of them, i gave away my trust and my whole heart only to find out there was nothing left to give in the end..he cheated on me and lied to me big time..slept with someone else when we had fights and was dong it in our bedroom... learned from it and i know it will never gonna happen..i never love more instead i let them love me more..