i've been thinking about my ex..
By JoieGahum
@JOIEMARVIC (2334)
Philippines
September 23, 2008 8:51am CST
im happy with my current boyfriend..
infact well be celebrating our anniversay this coming month..
though i love him so much,
lately i have been thingking about my ex..
we parted last year,and were not in good terms..
well,my fault,my relationship with my current boyfriend
was a whirlwind romance..
actually,i tooked him away from his girlfriend,and he took
me away from my boyfriend..(yah,i know its bad)..(its a different story,let's go back to my topic)..
my problem is, i would like to know how my
ex boyfriend is doing..
has he recovered?
does he hate me less?
if you were in my shoes,how could you let go
of these gulit feeling i still have in me?
i dont want this feeling to affect my present relationship..
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5 responses
@rsa101 (40962)
• Philippines
24 Sep 08
Well I guess curiosity about former relationships are just but a natural reactions especially if you are the ones that caused the breakup of the relationship. I guess if it just went by a year then perhaps wounds may still be fresh especially they are the ones that got hurt. So I guess just let it be the way it is right now. Do you really need to know it. What is the purpose of knowing if he still hurts or what. will it satisfy you seeing him that you have hurt him? Well I guess if you are brave enough then confront him one of these days to know. But if you are just curios then I would suggest to let it be.
@ronaldinu (12422)
• Malta
23 Sep 08
I think its normal to think about exes. If you had a special relationship with him he will remain forever in your heart, at least a piece of him. Concentrate on your present relationship. Keep yourself busy and you will stop thinking about him
@ashish1487 (137)
• India
23 Sep 08
see its good that you have not forgooten your ex-boyfreind but the think is that if you have left something then you should not go back or think of your past because it harms your present as well as your future and the result you have seen by yourself if you were happy with your present boyfreind then you should not have thought of past. see no one would like that if any one is her girlfreind then she can talk with other boy or try to meet her pas boyfreind, because jealousy feelings come even i can get jealous if it is done by my girlfreind so now there is no option left eith you because if your present boyfreind can come then you shoukd say sorry to it otherwise you have to search for a new one because your exboyfreind ma be busy with another girl and will not willing to come back as now he do not have faith art life with new morning bye takecarein you so in my opinio you should search for another one thst will be more beneficial and try tos
@monishavakil (1019)
• India
23 Sep 08
well dear, sad to hear your love life however what i would like to say is let by gones be bygones and please move ahead. i know what the feeling is like, you always wanna know how your ex is doing but what i would suggest is just leave it. You may get to know something you dont wanna and that could be the cause of spoiling a good relationship you share now. all the best and tc





