are you going to marry a woman or man 20 years older than you?

Philippines
September 23, 2008 7:36pm CST
hello everyone if you met a person 20 years older than you are you willing to get married with them or look for another one?
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8 responses
• Philippines
26 Jul 09
age doesn't matter with me.as long as he is financially responsible and dependable,then I'll go for it.age doesn't really dictate the kind of relationship you have.I will marry someone who is mature,who'll love and care for me,can take care of me and my children,and will support me with my dreams and goals.
@cherriemae (3370)
• Philippines
12 May 09
Hellol prince_Anthony..how are you today? for me, age doesn't matter as long as you love each other, that you respect each other's decision, that you care each other, love each other's family.. i mean, i don't think age really matter in a relationship..me, i'm open in that kind of relationship and if the guy wanted to marry me, why not? as long as he is stable enough to build a family and he really love me as well and accept me who i am and what i am.. happy mylotting
@Galena (9110)
26 Sep 08
if that's the person I fell in love with, then yes I would. as it happens, my Fiance is only 3 years older than me. if her were 20 years older than me, I'd still marry him because I love him.
@eneria (118)
• Philippines
29 Oct 08
why not?? age doesn't really matter at all.. as long as you love and understands each other.. :) and as long as you don't have any hidden agenda about your partner..
@jstmarfz (1498)
• United States
26 Sep 08
Never in my entire life to dream marrying a guy with 20 years older than me. But things come unexpectedly. It was a good choice though. Ever since, I really want my man to be older than me but not like 20 years old. This was really my faith. I am happily married to my husband. He gave the love, care, respect, loyalty, friendship more than I expected. I am 20 years younger to him. I thought it will be hard for us because of our age. But things really went right with our marriage life. There may be misunderstanding between us but it will resolve and we reconcile that soon because we knew how to deal with it. We knew how to adjust to make our relationship works.
@jzjqdkd (273)
• China
25 Sep 08
I WIII ONly if i really love her,other factors don't matter in our marridge,what we need in our life is the love from each other.we need and have to cherish the precious feeling towards each other.
@rsa101 (37932)
• Philippines
25 Sep 08
For me, for as long as you can love one another why not. But I doubt if both can really meet each other's need. Since having that age gap it is really hard for them to have the same interests in their age groups already. But I guess there are people who feel can do that so it really depend on the person at all.
• United States
24 Sep 08
I can justify marrying at 5-10 years older, but 20 years older is just weird. I mean, when you were 10 they would have been 30, old enough to be your mother/father.