tell me how to cope with this

hello you do what you do and you are convinced with so just let him talking, i still single and i don't know how the things going on, but with a logic : Men is always saying Do that, no do that lol it's like a habbit in us i think lol so you have 2 options : 1- you know your husband more than us, and you know how he is, so it's just a habbit and you have to deal with. 2- Face him and telling him that you do tha routine hell thing lol so forget about me just for 1 Day if you can my love !!

I would just be honest and tell him that you don't like when he tells you what to do all the time.And if he doesn't stop then I would tell him I wasn't going to cook or do the laundry until he learned not to tell me to do it.That way maybe he will stop or he will get hungry and wear dirty clothes.

for me,i just do all the routine things at home and shut my both ears....hahahaha...sometimes,it gets very annoyed, i just went out for window shooping to release my tension....but of course,after all the houseworks done...