If your friend asks you to pretend that you're his/her girlfriend/boyfriend
September 24, 2008 3:36am CST
Has this happened to you? Do you mind if your friend asks you to pretend that you're his/her girlfriend/boyfriend? Do you feel uncomfortable because that person is only a friend and acting romantically in front of others? or do you enjoy it as well? How will you react if a friend asks you to pretend to be his or her bf or gf?
24 Sep 08
Depends on the situation. Once I was in a cafe and a man started to get fresh with me. I ask a friend of mine if he could pretend to be my BF. He did. And I told the guy who was getting fresh to meet my Bf. After 5 min this guy was gone.LOL. And within two months the guy who pretended to be my Bf, has know become my Bf. In jan it will be two years,LOL. And I have had other situations, where I would help or be helped. I don't mind, I rather like the challenge. Especially when it is not real, LOL. Take care.
24 Sep 08
Well, it depends upon his reason why do I need to pretend to be his girlfriend.. If his reason is valid the I'll go for it but with so many conditions like no kissing... I think I won't be able to enjoy it since I'm not sure if we are doing the right thing or should I say I'm doing the right thing.. Of course, I don't feel comfortable being or acting as his girlfriend since he is just only my friend and I don't feel something special with all the romantic actions in front of others... Maybe, I can be act the way as a girlfriend in front of many people since I am not comfortable doing it.. And I guess, I could not pretend to be a girlfriend to any friend that i have 'cause I know that my boyfriend will get mad at me..
24 Sep 08
well it has happened to me once when my friend wnat me to act as her boyfriend so as to make his x-boyfriend feel alittle jealous and seriously i dont mind in doing that i do not have those kind of complexities that oh my god i am being used ,well it is just for a friend and helping a friend so as to make her happy is a good thing that is what all friends do ,...am i right well it may sound a little weird but helping others is like praising god and praising god..well that is what we are born for to make this world a better place to live by our good deeds and no matter what way it is helping your friend to pretend to be her girlfriend or boyfriend might not be adjustable for some body,but that is their kid of thinking everybody has their own kind of thinking they are the ones who choose between right and wrong they are the ones who make their own ways someone like to be friends somebody wants to be good friends somebody wants ot become girlfriends/boyfriend and some end up being brothers and sisters its their own wish ot is our own choice .have a nice day