im beginning to hate my officemate!!!

Ya, you must. Not only you everybody will do that. Why? Because, we need enemies to live. If we don't have, it is difficult to live. Mind is restless and always look for something to attach with. If we are not getting anything to attach with, it goes mad. So what we do? Look around for something, about which we can think on, or on which we can linger and so on. People makes enemies with in their own vicinity. For example neighbor, or inside the family or inside the office. If is inside the office it is easier for us to think negative about them for many hours. Thinking negative and abuse her in your mind gives you pleasure and satisfaction. You can kill her also inside your mind or tear her infront of others if you want - But all in your mind. By doing all these things we will get satisfaction that our mind got something to stick with ! And what if she does not exist in the world? Then we will search for somebody else to be our enemy. We need enemies, without them we can't live. Don't take this as an isolated case. This is what all human beings are. It is good that you got somebody in your office itself. I have my enemy within inside - my own mind. Truly! Please don't get angry with me for whatever I have written about psychology. This psychology rule the world. Happy mylotting!