Selfish Love is the norm

India
September 25, 2008 12:40am CST
I somehow feel that word love is been so much misused by us that it has lost its meaning and now days the norm is love someone then u just own him/her...like I is first and US is not in the picture at all... I mean have you ever felt lost in your loves company and felt used... I have at times felt that... but i know at times i also selfish love him back....
1 response
@ralphido (843)
• India
25 Sep 08
time has taught me again and again it is not what you get but what you give that matters... if you respond well to something or someone it will return it you in manyfold. but sometimes we get somethings taken for granted and that's when we start messing things up.. whenever you are in doubt just think how it will feel without that person or thing...
• India
25 Sep 08
True Ralph... but sometime you want to be a little selfish and think about urself... especially during a tiff... but i know I do want only him in a my life... so that solves many a things... but in past i do know that i was selfish at times...
@ralphido (843)
• India
25 Sep 08
i have had some experience with selfishnesss myself.. but i have never gained anything by trying to get whatever i wanted without thinking about the other side,,.. when it is someone you love however selfish you may be you are really hurt when you lose that person...
• India
26 Sep 08
that is so very true....yet it is a reality that whatever be the circumstances we do keep ourself in front and under very few times keep the other person front... thats selfish isnt it???