Is this mean?!

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I put this under relationships because although it is clearly a parenting question, it also has to do with the PARENTS. Say you are heading out to walk down the block to pick up your 6 year old son from the bus stop after school. He is in first grade. Even though your house is about a block away from the stop, the bus stops on the opposite side of the street so it's important you meet him so he doesn't have to cross a street alone. You have already walked down your driveway and onto the side of the road. Your spouse is inside the house with your other kids. Suddenly your three year old comes barreling out the front door WITHOUT HIS SHOES and is chasing you, running down the driveway and into the street! First of all, the parent in the house should not have allowed them to run out the front door, right?? Second of all, your response is to yell out of fear that he is going to hurt his bare feet AND you don't want him running in the street. When you try calling for your spouse to come get him, he calls YOU *MEAN*. So... is it mean to expect the other parent to prevent a kid from running out without shoes? Is it mean to yell at your small child and tell them they need to get shoes on before coming outside?? Remember at this point you are already out of the driveway! I don't get it. I don't see anything MEAN about expecting the other parent to keep the other kids in the house. I also don't see anything mean about asking your kid to have shoes on or go back in the house! It would be meaner to let them get injured or run over!