my life

@aviva08 (120)
China
September 26, 2008 1:06am CST
Today is rainning,the sky is gray.I feel very deprseed.Beacause i still don't found a job. I don't know what can i do.I can sleep all day,but i don't like this life,how can i change my life?
4 responses
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
hi gurl..i am jobless like you, do not be as gray as the sky. i am not that depress because i know i can find a job soon, just be positive, find some jobs here in the internet, try to see what are the careers you want to apply and then prepare for it. i can sleep all day too, but i know i cannot sleep forever that is why i am thinking of my prospects, on what i want to do next, on how will i get what i want. your destiny is in your hands, not on anybody else's, only you can answer that, think...but while seeking for employment, enjoy mylot and other moneymaking sites here, i am doing that too.
@aviva08 (120)
• China
28 Sep 08
Thank you,but in china is hard to find a job now.
@CAdreamer (118)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I have recently found myself in the same predicament. What I do to change my mood and alter the way I am spending my time is to go out and get some exercise, either at a gym or just outdoors. I also sit outside and listen to nature somewhere where life won't interrupt me. You might try this. I also meditate occassionally and this seems to help me feel a sense of peace within myself. I know sometimes life can be hard, but the way you deal with these problems is the true test of how you live your life.
@aviva08 (120)
• China
28 Sep 08
Thank you for you,you are very kind.
@sandymay16 (1617)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
hello, it's gray and raining here too. i don't have a job yet but i'm not depressed i'm so over that stage getting depress when life's not treating you fairly :) don't sleep all day you will miss out interesting new things, start a graden after the rain, explore your backyard, go out and meet new friends who knows you may find the job you like. while waiting for job offers enjoy mylot
@aviva08 (120)
• China
28 Sep 08
Thank you for your concern.I hope you find a job quickly.Good lunck for you.
@chiaeugene (2225)
• China
28 Sep 08
take a walk, go for a jog or find inspirational music to listen to like chariots of fire, st's elmo fire etc. life still has a long way to go. it is full of up and down. i had my up for a long time and my past 2 years is a low down, very low down and i would dare say i am in a worse off position than you even if i do not know what are your problems now but mine was real bad. it was like those you would only believe would happen in a movie but not in real life. but i got through it and now i am still alive and kicking. i almost ended my life a year ago but my son brought me back from despair. dun ask others how to change your life for you but ask yourself how much are u prepare to change it. things would not happen immediately, it would take time to materialise. if you are impatient and expect results or changes fast, then your expectations is not realistic and i would advise you to manage your expectations. finding a job is not easy nowadays, i have friends who are looking for one since last year and still unable to find one. take things one at a time, a small step each time and you will slowly walk out of your darkness.