Any you willingly to sacrifice for your love one??
By snpyvin
@snpyvin (1518)
Malaysia
September 26, 2008 6:42am CST
Hi i wonder how many of you out there are willing to sacrifice for your love one?? the sacrifice can be many for example being tolerant with them, care and love them more than they do, forgive them every thought they didnt something wrong repeatedly.??Or more bigger sacrifice like donate organ part for him or her, die for her and so on.I am the willing one here so voice out the rest of your thoughts here whether you willing or not.
4 responses
@tamarafireheart (15384)
•
27 Sep 08
Hi snpyvin,
Yes I have been sacrificing myself for a long time with my husband because I have been very tolerant of him for some peace and quiet.
Tamara
@pehpot (4762)
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
I really don't believe the word sacrifice, I am not fond of this word or rather I don't believe the people saying they sacrifice for their love ones etc. I do believe though that when you do something for some one you are actually doing something that would make you happy. I do sometimes feel this way. That we are actually people living only for ourselves, like me, I do live for my kids, I live and do everything to make them happy, I sacrifice a lot I say but at the end of the day I am happy on the things I did for them. I guess if I had not done it I would not be happy, so we do sacrifice and we do somethings because we really want to. Like for say we do something that we don't like and yet we are forced to do so, why? because we want approval of the person that forced us to do, it is actually self serving.
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 08
Ya i do agree about the another view of you about sacrifice this word.Sometimes its just not about sacrifice is because its the thing we wanna do to make them happy and seeing your love one happy is very satisfied. The other point i agree is that we are not force to do sacrifice. Thanks for responding over here and happy mylotting!!!!!!!!!
@cassandralynn (1084)
• United States
26 Sep 08
Yes, I have and I do sacrifice for my love one's. I have given' up being selfish and I put my family before me most of the time. I have sacrifice jobs/career to be a stay at home mom to be with my child with disabilities . But perosnally I man learning to be more tolortant with my love one's. When you mentioned about " do you forgive them for doing something wrong repeatedly" that really did hit close to home with me because I find myself exploding at my husband sometimes when he make's the same mistakes over and over again and it upsets me that he doesn't learn not to make the same mistakes over and over again. Even though he has many faults , I'm still with him and stand by him, so I guess that is being tolerant and loving him regardless of how he is.. Would I die for my family? My son, I would for him, not sure if I would for my husband...LOL
@snpyvin (1518)
• Malaysia
28 Sep 08
Its good to hear that everything is going fine in your family and you have learn how to tolerant whether with your husband or son and the most important is that you do learn to forgive. Of course there would be no doubts to die for your son as you yourself see him be born and raise him up till today. For husband maybe you doesn't love him much like you love your son hehe so you still doubts to die for him hehe.
@klaudine (3650)
• Indonesia
26 Sep 08
Well, I think I have sacrifice enough for my partner, and I don't think that it is should be questionable. LOL. No I am not being nasty, but I believe that for someone beloved, people would like to sacrifice almost everything. But then, I realized that sacrificing something also should be reconsider whether it is worth it or not, because you know.. love is blind, and sometimes it would blinded our logic so we sacrifice for nothing. That's just sad
