will you spend your time with the wrong one while waiting for ms/mr right?

Philippines
September 26, 2008 8:49am CST
what if you are hoping and praying for someone else, maybe a past relationship with someone, someone you fantasized, or perhaps someone you've been longing to be with, wherein you believe that you are destined to be with? will you spend your time with the wrong one while waiting for mr/ms right?..
6 responses
@peedielyn (1207)
• United States
30 Sep 08
I am actually doing that right now. I don't like the guy I am with but he has no where to go, custody of his kids and still paying child support on both of them from previous. I am still in love with my first love but we are two states apart. I have tried to reason with this guy telling him in the nicest way possible that I don't have a tolerance for him. I have tried everything, meanwhile my heart is waiting on me to come home to him. He knows what is going on and is willing to wait too. Like he said, we waited 15 years to be together, a little longer isn't going to hurt.
• Philippines
1 Oct 08
you are absolutely correct. both of you have been waiting for too long to be together. be patient, love will find it's way. i wish you luck. happy posting.
@fayeeh (117)
• Japan
26 Sep 08
In that case, I will consider the time how long I will wait for mr right guy. I believe there's a lot of things happening in a day then how much more if you wait for 3-5 years? I don't think I'll wait for someone that long. You also need to consider your age. Whether you are young or old, why not open your heart to someone who is there? How can you say that he is the wrong guy if you didn't even try to open your heart to him? Who might know, the one you thought the wrong guy is the right guy for you.
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
that is right! how will you know that someone is not meant for you if you haven't tried?..thanks and happy mylotting.
@cher913 (25782)
• Canada
26 Sep 08
nope. if i had to do it again i would seriously just be alone and have fun. why be in a bad relationship while waiting for a good one? seriously, its just not worth the frustration and i am way better than that.
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
right! why settle for someone less when you can have the best! we just have to patiently wait for the right one! thanks. happy mylotting!
26 Sep 08
Not in a malicious way or with any intent to hurt the person but yes I would be with someone even if I knew it wasn't going to be forever. I'm young, and I really don't see why i should only be with people taht I think I'll be able to be with forever, taht just makes little sense to me. It's all about happiness, contentness and companionship. And what's to say that your mind may be changed for you over this person, and you could actually end up staying with them. I say you don't know until you try, so why miss out on a chance because you don't think they're 'the one'...??
• Philippines
27 Sep 08
perfectly said, my friend. you never know what you might be losing if you miss all the opportunity that comes your way. who knows, the one that we are missing is the one destined to be with us, right? take care.
@amlegend (945)
• Pakistan
26 Sep 08
nope i won't but there is a saying "if the wrong one is cute,forget the fruit" but i don't agree with it. i will not waste my time with that person whom i don't or she don't likes me or not my kinda girl... i will dedicate that time for something useful or start searching for the ms. right in that case
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
right! why settle for someone less when you can have the best?! thanks and happy mylotting!
• Philippines
11 Nov 08
no way! i would rather be alone that pretend to love someone who loves me....i will not be in a relationship with someone i dont love...