Have you ever been a victim of a fatal attraction?

@sudalunts (5523)
United States
September 26, 2008 4:06pm CST
I dated a guy for eleven years, we had our ups and downs, too many downs to mention. Whenever I tried to get rid of him, thus he would appear again. One time I told him it was over and I didn't want to have anything else to do with him. I took my house key from him, and we left out of my house at the same time. I went to my mother's house. I arrive home about ten that night, when I put the key in the door I could the TV on thru the glass door, thinking maybe I did not turn it off before I left, well, when I entered my living room, there he was lying on my couch. He said he climbed in through my kitchen window. Another time, I came home from work, it was in October, when it was dark at five in the evening, I got out of my car, and he jumped out from behind a big tree that was in front of my house. I even called the cops to make him leave one night, the cops escorted him down the street, as soon as the police car went around the corner, he was banging on my door again. I stopped answering my phone and got caller ID, because of him. One night I was on the telephone, and forgot when I switched over to another call, and it was him, I hung up the phone. That night around two in the morning, I heard banging on my door. I stayed quiet, and he eventually left. He would call my house so much, I was forced to unplug my phone. Thank God, he finally have left me alone. Have you ever been stalked or aggravated by an ex bf or gf, wife or husband?
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• Philippines
26 Sep 08
Oh my gosh that was really creepy and scary, thank God he didn't turn out violent. Well I had kind of a similar experience from my current boyfriend but not really that creepy scary. lol. So we broke up and after a couple of months he wanted us to be back together. He was so persistent he would suddenly show up at my school and follow me around, or just keep on calling and crying over the phone and saying how sorry he was. It was pretty annoying at first, but then I don't know my heart just melted with all of his effort and I accepted him back. I actually don't regret it 'cause I really loved the annoying guy. lol. ^___^
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
26 Sep 08
I hope things work out for you. Yeah, he was just annoying
• Philippines
26 Sep 08
hehehe. well thanks, since the whole annoying act we've been together for 3 years already, and Im still looking forward for more annoying years with him. LOL.
@palonghorn (5479)
• United States
26 Sep 08
Only once, and he was a friend, well that's all I wanted to be, he obviously thought we were more than friends. He bought me all kinds of gifts, and when I tried to get rid of him in my life, he wouldn't let go. He called me at all times of the day and night, and then turned it to more threatening phone calls. I got to the point where I would park my car nearer my daughter's apartment (we lived in the same complex) and not in front of my own apartment. Even though we lived in a gated community, all he had to do to enter was wait for someone to enter that lived there and follow them in. He never did show up at my apartment, thank goodness, and when I found out he was making these threatening phone calls from his work, he was a dispatcher for first responders, I turned it into his boss. He lost his job, and figured I was serious about him leaving me alone, and figured out I was not one to mess with. I had more connections in that circle of people than he knew, and I wouldn't let him intimidate me.
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
26 Sep 08
Happy to hear he is no longer bothering you. Some people do not understand, not interested.
@NrgDfenZ (1810)
• Belgium
27 Sep 08
No I have never been that :) Sorry to hear that you have.. Have a nice day..