"TRUST" Should we give it? or Should they earn it?

trust, i just give it, but i also need to earn it, but there are many people do not appreciate it at all.

Hi there Ashvann! I believe that trust is earned and NOT demanded. We just do not give it to anyone. It must be earned -- in most cases, the hard way! This is one thing that when lost, it would be difficult to bring back. It is not easy to win people's trust. Thus, it is important for people to take care of the trust people give them. "Carpe diem, quam minimum credula postero." (Seize the day, put no trust in tomorrow) (Horace)

Hello ash! For me, a person should work for it in order for them to earn it. If you don't work, you never earn anything. As easy as that. To make sure that the person deserves the trust that I/we give to them.

they can't earn it if we don't want to give it. we should learn to the risk on trusting people and be able to give a second chance if ever they broke it by any chance.

i personally believe that TRUST should be earn by a person by showing how true he is to you and to himself. He should be sincere in his actions and words, even though he might not be perfect because no one really is, at least he has been true and if ever he commit mistakes, he did not unintentionally. well if he has done good enough and you see and feel he is worth it then, GIVE it.. happy myloting!

I really believe that before we give our trust, the person should earn it first from us. Earnig trust is being honest, sincere, and you must have a word of honor in every words that comes out into your mouth. And after we see that a person possess that quality, that's the time you can give your trust to him.

Trust should be earn, especially in this days and age. Somebody can look very trustworthy but deep inside he can be the worst person in the world. So, yes, people should prove themselves first before I can trust them.

for me it should be earneed

Trust must be earned ! . I have few friends that i really trust .

Hey all. Trust is.......a little (ok not so litlle) complex thing. Somethimes u dont even know u let ur trust 'go away', that u gave ur trust to some person. We cant really select to whom we want to give trust or not- trust is like separate being, something we cannot control. I know, its confusing