about my lot discussion

@mhrmasum (678)
Bangladesh
September 28, 2008 2:45am CST
I started a discussion 2 days ago but i dont get good response from the my lotters. But i find that the same discussion is started now 2 hours ago one of the my lotter but he get the good response. The first thing is that my discussion and the running discussion is same. What i want to say and what he want to say is absolutely same. Why i dont get the good response. Can anyone answer me why it is happened to me?
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8 responses
@roniroxas (10574)
• Philippines
28 Sep 08
when i was new here too i experienced that too. but i just go with the flow. now that i am experienced mylot member i think the problem is you need nore supportive friends in mylot for you to have a lot of responses. you need to have a good and a catchy tittle to go with the discussion so it can be a interesting discussion. dont worry as you get more used to it you will get what i am talking about. goodluck. just have fun dont get to affected if your discussion has not gained a lot of responsos. during my new days i even have a discussions with mo responces. happy posting
@mhrmasum (678)
• Bangladesh
28 Sep 08
thanks for ur advice. How can i make more supportive frnds. If there is any way please inform me. happy lotting
@roniroxas (10574)
• Philippines
28 Sep 08
just send freinds request for the more the merrier. notify on all of them and try to respond on the discussion they start. in mylot we need to help one another. we have to post to our friends discussion so they will post on our discussion as well. i have friends who does not respond to my discussion too but what can i do. i gained a lot of good friends here and they are really supportung me. hope you find such friends too.
@makingpots (11920)
• United States
29 Sep 08
The other person might have more active friends here at myLot. Some friends have a pact with each other to always respond to each others discussions. There are many other reasons this may have happened to your discussion, like time of day you posted it, etc. I would not take it personal, mhrmasum. I think it is a good practice to not take anything personally here at myLot.
@mhrmasum (678)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 08
Sorry for that. though im in new here. I am in a learning process. But i dont start discussion to personally heat any one. I apologized for this. happy my lotting
@EAStanley (2688)
• United States
29 Sep 08
Hmm, these are good things to think about.
@mhrmasum (678)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 08
Yah sometimes it makes me uninspired to start a new discussion. happy lotting
@hellcowboy (7380)
• United States
28 Sep 08
Yeah I know what you mean my friend it seems that one person will start a discussion but only get a couple responses,but then someone else would start a similar discussion and get a lot of responses I am not sure,why I have seen it happen to me I will start a discussion and not get many responses,but then someone else started a similar discussion and got a bunch of responses,I think that sometimes it depends on who started the discussion,what their reputation is,and how they worded the discussion.
@mhrmasum (678)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 08
Yah friend my main fault is i dont maintain timing. Actually i dont know that timing is a considerable factor for posting a discussion. I wish i will maintain it. Happy lotting
@vmksvmks (413)
• Canada
28 Sep 08
I respond to my friends at my first priority and from there it is head and miss I think it is the luck of the draw and i am sure someone doesnot answer a discussion over another similiar one for any reason but luck I respond to No responses,new user and my friends and i have no time for the others Rarely when it is slow i will respond to that email we get with a list of topics I wonder was your topic in that list i suggest it wasnot Good Luck Its not a big deal at least to me
@mhrmasum (678)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 08
Its good to know that u response only the frnds discussion. I think i added in my frnds list. For the next time i will try to maintain it. happylotting
@James72 (26829)
• Australia
28 Sep 08
This has happened to me before too mhrmasum! It can be for any number of reasons really. It could be something as simple as their timing for one; or maybe the second poster has a wider friends network? Most of the time though I think that it is just a matter of luck with timing more than anything else.
@mhrmasum (678)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 08
Yah frnd i received so many suggestion from the my lotter. For the next time i will try to keep in mind that when i post my discussion. happy lotting
@winzpc (2356)
• Indonesia
28 Sep 08
Every myLotters has their own opinion, so you will get a different response in here. beside that your discussion is can be like this. Your discussion is response by your friend and the same discussion that you find is also response by her/his friend. So between you and he/she has a different friend and you will get the different response. Also everyone has their own ability to write their opinion and words in here. So in here there is no the best and the worse. All are the same. keep post Happy myLotting...
@mhrmasum (678)
• Bangladesh
29 Sep 08
yah frnd is a big factor in my lot to get a good response. I have many frnd in my lot but its sometime impossible for me to response all of the discussion of my lotter frnd. happy lotting
@stvasile (7316)
• Romania
28 Sep 08
I don't exactly understand what you mean... 1. You've started a discussion on a topic and you don't get many responses while another discussion on the same topic does OR 2. You've posted a response to a discussion and another user that posted pretty much the same response got marked as "best response" and you don't understand the reason?