To Bossy?

@missybear (11393)
United States
September 28, 2008 8:31am CST
I think sometimes I'm to Bossy and controling. I'm the only one working right now, so I always feel like I should make all the decissions. What we eat when we can go out, where we can go and so on. Is that wrong of me. Only cause he is not working shouldn't mean he has no say so."or does it"
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@JenInTN (27547)
• United States
1 Jan 09
heyya missy..I know this discussion is older but I wanted to respond anyway. I to am the only one working right now and sometimes I see myself running the show too.I try to let him have input and such but to be honest sometimes I feel a little resentful. He wants to work but it just hasn't worked out like that as of late.
@missybear (11393)
• United States
1 Jan 09
It's tough sometimes and i get a little mad at times, but he is really a good guy so i'm happy for that.Thanks for responding, better late than never.
• Canada
29 Sep 08
Each should have some say if you love each other. It would be hard to have someone working and making you feel bad cause you are not bringing in money and not letting you make decisions like you were a kid at home again and had to listen to what your parents were saying. I do not think I could stay in a relationship like this if I felt I had no say in what happened cause it would be my life to and I would feel that I should be able to make decisions even if I did not make any of the money.
@missybear (11393)
• United States
1 Jan 09
He does say what he wants and he does do what he wants it's not all that bad for him.