My friend said she hated me on the blog
By luckycat
@luckycat (220)
Bolivia
September 28, 2008 10:12am CST
Today i saw my friend's blog,i didnt see it on purpose.I just browsed around and i
entryed.Actually she keeps wrting diaries on the blog.i checked ,and i found out
that some articles were about me.She said she hated me ,she jealous me,she focus on
her study and got nothing.And I got good mark without studying.she thought that's
unfair.and she thought me self-centred(come on.i asked my other friens.they don't
feel that way).
I read thess pages many times,for the first time,i was angry,the second time ,the
third time,i cried.It's really hurts.I treated her as my friend.We are
roommates.And she seldom talk,she seldom talk about her opinion.So i didnt know she
hated me like that.Now I really don't know what to do.Should i pretend nothing
happen at all and still treat her like my friend.OH.upset!!
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5 responses
@Mentesimples (40)
• Portugal
28 Sep 08
If you get better grades then her without studying, that means that you're more intelligent than her, or that she simply doesn't know how to study -_-'
You shouldn't feel bad about yourself for having good grades, she just has to get used to it.. Sure, it sucks. It's awful to know that she's jealous of you, but I don't believe she really "hates" you. It's more likely that she's disappointed with her achievements, and there's not much you can do about it.
As ever as you can, compliment her on her good grades, and try not to express your happiness on more than deserved grades to wildly, at least not in front of there (unless she's also satisfied with hers).
That are the few simple things you can do to try to make her feel better about herself. And yes, enjoy the fact that you can get good grades without that much effort. You deserve it!
;)
@scarlet_woman (23465)
• United States
28 Sep 08
yea,one of my now ex-friends(her choice)did that to me.
convieniently leaving my name out,but with enough that i knew it was aimed at me.
i thought she'd lost her mind reading what she wrote.
some people just get ideas in their head,and you can't change them.
@LadyMarissa (12148)
• United States
28 Sep 08
First of all, she is NOT your friend!!! If she were your friend, she'd be honest & tell you how she really feels!!! I'm the type that would print out what she said & then ask her why she feels that way. She can't be very smart or she wouldn't say it in a public blog instead of to your face!!! Good luck when you speak with her as I suspect she will NOT be truthful with you!!! 
@mushylauff (81)
• Belgium
28 Sep 08
i suggest to confront her said everthing you saw.
don't pretend nothing if there's really something going on.
i hate backstabbing and this makes me more angry...
