are you willing to help your partner wih his/her school or office work?
@kenchiprincess (5296)
Philippines
September 28, 2008 1:45pm CST
i am just wondering if you are helping your partner with his/her school or office work if the situation calls for it? i do most of the time especially if he ask for my help which he rarely does unless he is cramping with the stuff and have to work on something that needs to be done and i can do it with his supervision, then i do. how about you?
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@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
well, supposedly, that's the way it should in any relationship... whether friendship or something deeper, right? just a matter of give and take. and if i am in that sense of that word... having a partner, whatever, i will do so in a heartbeat.. hehehehe.. happy mylotting
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@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
i may say that there could be no road... darn that fickle minded oaf... as in... i just wanna throttle someone now. roller coaster ride for the past 11 days.
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
yes friend that's how it should be in every relationship whatever the kind of relationship you are into. :) that is how it should work. happy mylotting!!! and i am so happy for you and i know you are happy too.. the road may be rough at times but no one promises a bed of roses for it won't ever be... the more thorns there is the more stronger the relationship becomes as long as you both hold on. :)
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@aisaellis22 (6445)
• United States
28 Sep 08
Yes, if my partner wants me to help his office work or projects. That's what partners do right? Helping your partner in his work is one thing for you to bond and to know grow your love.
@shiloh_222 (5479)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
i wholeheartedly agree to what you both said. it's "partner-ship"... hehehehe... and it is love in practical ways...
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
yeah, right. that is why we call them partner for they extend help if needed. thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
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@narayan2006 (2954)
• India
28 Sep 08
I do find a great pleasure to help my partner in her official assignments, on many occasions.When I find her little pressed and worried to attend to any such emmergency works, I do always come forward to volunarily offer my services and help,if needed by her,and do my best to put my time and effort to release her pressure of work,in both official and domestic activities.Thamks.
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
hi there, it is nice to know that you are always there for your partner when your help is needed the most. i believe your partner appreciates that a lot. thanks for the post and have agreat day!!
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@highflyingxangel (9225)
• United States
29 Sep 08
My partner offers to help me with my work all the time. And I mean all the time. In fact right now she's working on some lesson plan stuff for me while I'm here doing a bit more posting on Mylot. I'm being lazy and not working on a paper now. I would offer to help her do things but she's an art major and I'm not artistic at all hence why she's cutting out things for a lesson plan of mine. I tend to do a lot of my own stuff but I don't get to do it all the time and I can't always depending on how artistic I need to be.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
hello there, good to hear that your partner helps you out most of the time with your work and given with her artistic ability i guess she can really make great materials for you. Btw, do you help her out as well if she needed help? thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@sudalunts (5523)
• United States
28 Sep 08
When I was working as a payroll administrator, there were many reports that I had to balance. Rather than staying at the office pondering over them, I would bring them home. Two sets of eyes are always better than one, and my husband would help me balance the reports. It was always very helpful, because as he called off the numbers I would check them off, which made it much easier in finding the error.
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
that's really great doing that. you are right that two eyes are better than one and not only that you both are doing the work and makes it easier but at the same time this serves as a bonding time too.... thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
hi there, that is really great you both is working like a team. will there be times that you got disagreement with work? how do you manage your personal and professional life since you work together? i am just curious. thanks for the post and have a great day!!!
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@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
hi there, that's great to hear that you respect each other with your responsibilities at work i think what is important is open communication and respect and that would help things work. :) have a great day!!!
@redkathy (3374)
• United States
29 Sep 08
Yes we do have disagreements. We just weigh the opinions/options and agree to go with what weighs out better. You see I handle office/admin areas and he handles field work. I don't step on his area and he doesn't step on mine. It's a matter of respect.
As for personally, I refuse to discuss work during personal time. He doesn't always agree but you can't have a conversation with someone who isn't listening so I win!
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@tlb0822 (1410)
• United States
28 Sep 08
I often help my fiance with his work. Usually it is just filling out paperwork that he needs for his job. He'd rather me do it since my writing is better than his. He also isn't the best speller so I hope him spell things, or tell him words that he doens't know. I love him dearly and I will always help him do things like that when he asks.
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
hi there, great of you to healp your fiance on his paperwork. i think it is expected in a relationship that you help each other in any way possible. thanks for sharing. have a great day and happy mylotting!!!
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@sweetie1026 (1718)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
Of course, i will but only if he is ok with me helping him. Then, i'll try very careful not to mess with what he is doing. I think everyone would love to help his partner do his school or office work.It would be so nice working together with him, i just love it.
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
hello there, that is so great to hear of course we need to be careful not to mess up of course that's why when i help out i would usually say can you please check it first if i am doing good with this. thanks for the share and have a great day!!
@kenchiprincess (5296)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
hi there, i think this will also help to make both of you close knitted and more bonded for you are willing to help out in times when your partner is pressured and stress out because of work. thanks for bringing this up and have a great day!!!
