In a relationship, who falls in love faster, the man or the women?

United States
September 28, 2008 10:41pm CST
I think that most men won't admit when they've fallen in love, unless their sure their girlfriend feels the same way, but nevertheless, I think that the man can sometimes fall in love with a girl long before she does. Who do you think is usually first to fall in love in a relationship, the man or the women?
5 responses
@nlcapricorn (1114)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
It depends..There are men who are so much inlove i mean crazy inlove to a woman and there are woman too who are the same. I am a woman and its really easy for me to be inlove..I know not all women are like me. I dont even want to be close so much to a guy I might change my mind and end up my relationship with my boyfriend kidding! As what they have said women has a soft heart..We are so much emotional too compare to men. So it cant be denied now that women will fall in love faster. I admit it. But only most not all..
• United States
1 Oct 08
oh yes i believe in the men thing i think they fall in love faster but i think we fall in lover harder...
• United States
29 Sep 08
I think in the majority of relationships, at least in all of mine, it is always the woman that falls in love first. ESPECIALLY once you bring intimacy to the table. I think it's a lot easier for me to seperate their emotions then it is for women. Once they get swept off their feet and fall in love with the idea of a wonderful romance, they fall in love with the man, even if it's too early. You can not help what your heart feels and sometimes you just have to go with it, no matter what!
@esilanna (168)
• Malta
29 Sep 08
Hello mylotting friends!!! I think that girls fall in love much faster than boys. This is my impression however, it my be completely wrong. Happy mylotting!!!
@jammyt (2822)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
It really depends but generally, the girls/women fall in love faster, being the hopeless romantics. I've seen some guys fall in love real bad. Not such a pretty site. LOL!
• United States
29 Sep 08
That's not a question you can just answer directly, it really just depends on what relationship, the parties involved decide this, not some statistic. In my relationship I still have no idea who fell in love first, our love just kind of grew mutually, I would be crazy to try to determine that for other relationships. It's just something you can't generalize, every relationship and every person is different. All people fall in love differently, some faster, some slower, it all just depends on a lot of different factors.