how distracting is it to see a cleavage?

@oyenkai (4394)
Philippines
September 29, 2008 12:57am CST
Hey guys, this is a girl asking an honest question. How distracting is it to see a cleavage? And do you bother glancing at the face when you see one? How much effort does it take to ignore it? And how long before you get tired of it? And no, not a butt crack cleavage. I'm talking about the glorious valleys. I like wearing low neck tops but only because it looks nice (like even my sister would appreciate it) - not for guys to gawk -__-
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6 responses
• United States
29 Sep 08
it is very distracting . When I am wearing my little tank tops and push up bras and i am showing that extra skin . I get more attention and i get tipped better. I just brought the women's lib about 20 years behind for that , but it is true , s8x sells my friends. There is one woman I know and she has bright colorful tattoo on her chest . She is very large in that area also . I am not a lesbian but I have the hardest time to not look at the tattoo . She laughs at me.
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@zatak07 (699)
• India
29 Sep 08
"she laugh at you"...lol...just making a mental picture about that scene... :-) I understand..
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@zatak07 (699)
• India
29 Sep 08
wow...first of all ...its really a gr8 question Showing upto some degree its ok but with too much of exposure in public you'll be the limelight of everyone i believe, at same time it has a gr8 s*x appeal & (lol) to be honest but 1 have to be careful when wearing such scanty clothes like when you kneel 0r bend down to avoid unnecessary attention otherwise ok....
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@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
29 Sep 08
yeah, "unnecessary attention" hit it right. I hope some guys would show up in the discussion as well, it will be even more interesting if we'd hear them right?
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@zatak07 (699)
• India
29 Sep 08
absolutely....that'll be gr8 !
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@magojordan (3252)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
Honestly it is distracting. I really don't know the reason why but maybe it is wired in a guy's brain to get distracted by it. Well it takes some time before a guy ignores it maybe 3 seconds the least to turn away their head from the view of a cleavage. For me I still look at the face but of course if that person doesn't really look neat wearing that low neckline top then I don't look at that person anymore.
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@rocker21 (2716)
• India
30 Sep 08
well watching a cleavage is not that much, if a girl has it showin i dun even look at it, its okay if shes a show off then what can i do in it lol, let the dirt go collect their eyes on the cleavage the girls show coz guys who dont care dont have time to see all this stuff randomly.
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• Philippines
30 Sep 08
Hello! In all honesty, I think it is very distracting, especially when my girlfriend wears those low neck top things. When I'm in the mall and my girlfriend wears something like that, I find it hard to watch where I'm going because what she's wearing is so distracting that I take occasional glances and then try to fend off other guys who are looking at her. Sometimes, I'm OK with her wearing stuff like that but there is a limit. Sometimes, too much skin is shown and I ask her to cover up.
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@oyenkai (4394)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
That's thoughtful!
• United States
9 Jan 09
Not gonna lie. It's distracint. But I do have self control. :)
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