How to know if your friend is gay???
By sutan74
@sutan74 (1112)
Philippines
9 responses
@rmuxagirl (7548)
• United States
7 Nov 06
This is something you would come out and ask your friend. If he is gay and hasn't told anyone yet, maybe he's not ready for people to know yet. Just hold onto your thoughts and continue being his friend if he is gay he'll tell you guys someday..when he's ready, not when you all want to know.
@Sheila_Abram (1908)
• United States
6 Nov 06
Just ask him. If he is not ashamed he will tell you the truth. God Bless
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@lizabeth (666)
• United States
6 Nov 06
Is this something that you feel is important to know? Is it gonna change your friendship? If not I wouldn't worry about it. If he feels close enough to you I'm sure he will tell you. If you just need to know bring up something about another friend you have had that may have been gay or something just related to it. If you open up the conversation in that direction maybe he will confide if he is. I hope this has helped someway.
@sutan74 (1112)
• Philippines
6 Nov 06
Ha,ha I just want to clear this from my mind. I don't think it will affect our friendship, its just that he don't seem to be on the verge of telling me and our circle of friends his gay. At least if he tells it on our face we won't be wondering at all. LOL...
@margieanneart (26423)
• United States
26 Mar 07
I gave you another + rating. This is a very good question. I would not ask him. He is your friend, and if he is not, you can mess things up. If he is, let him tell you if he wants too. If he is your friend, who cares anyway. Let it go and just take him as he is. Please don't forget to rate "best response" dear. Good luck.
@fiyahcreation (2140)
• United States
6 Nov 06
wow that's deep, I don't know, but I wouldn't assume that he's gay,
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@lucalucky (1839)
• Italy
31 Mar 07
Why do you need to know, it is important? Do you will change your approach to him if he is gay? If he is a friend you don't need to change anything becuase he is not different if he is gay or not.
@ESKARENA1 (18260)
•
8 Apr 07
Dont worry about it. His sexuality is his own affair, when he is ready to tell you, he will
blessed be
@darkzzt (757)
• Canada
8 Apr 07
I would find it hard to ask that question to someone who is suspected of being gay because if I were gay, i wouldnt want to be hassled about it. It is hard to tell if they are gay or not because they can disguise their feelings and pretend that they like girls and even be with girls to show others that they are not gay. You should just not ask because you might ruin your friendship. It shouldnt make a difference if your friend is gay, he is still the same person. Also, when you are around people that may be gay, be careful not to say things like "That is so gay" because it is hurtful to gay people to use gay as a word to express negative feelings.










