Boredom with life
@BellasmamaTiff (2544)
United States
September 29, 2008 10:38pm CST
My life is officially at a stand still. I am back at home with my grandparents, with my daughter, my baby boy, my neice and my sister in law. We are all living in a tiny cramped attic. I am watching my neice for a tiny check from the state, while my sister in law works, she's pregnant, having another baby in March. I want to go back to school, but I have to be available around my SIL's work schedule. I want to do more with my life. I want to be something and someone that I can be proud of. I have a plan for my life, a map. I Know what I want in life, I just dont know how to achieve it. What do I do???
5 responses
@snowy22315 (208962)
• United States
30 Sep 08
One small step at a time is the best way to go. I think that you make your goals your life and make them small and manageable you will eventually ge there. You should practice visualizing them until you can see them clearly in your mind. I think that will be the best thing for you to do.
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@skaterx (530)
• Finland
23 Mar 10
Sucks to here :(
You just have to work on it step by step. It's tough, but everyone has to do this, do things step by step, no matter what position they are in. Achieving is about perseverance. Forgot what the motto was, but something like 90% perspiration and 10% luck?
@drannhh (15219)
• United States
30 Sep 08
Read books. Not trashy romance paperbacks, but real books from the library from classical literature to the how-to section. Learn, learn, and learn some more, then think about what course of study you might eventually enroll in and study books near to that subject. Whatever kind of school you choose there will still be basic requirements, so make sure you get the basics out of the way through self-study so that you will be able to spend your expensive school time on what matters. Education is the way out.
@writersedge (22563)
• United States
30 Sep 08
See if an accredited college near you has online classes and grants or someway to pay for it. Try one class online, doesn't even have to be a credit one, see if you can keep up with your studies and do it. That's the only way I know that you can be available and have a college class.
@ganda8831 (816)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
If you want to make something with your life, you have to start now. Why dont you write it down and check each one you've accomplished already. All people go through that stage of wanting to move forward but unable to. We just have to really want to change our lives for the better. You also have to tell your family that you want changes in your life and you need their cooperation to do that.
