how do you know you're involved with a toxic relationship?
By gracemanotoc
@gracemanotoc (641)
Japan
September 29, 2008 11:15pm CST
i didn't really know pro's and con's of being in a relationship.
Any advice when do you know ur in a toxic relationship and how to manage it?
3 responses
@jammyt (2818)
• Philippines
30 Sep 08
by "toxic", do you mean busy? Well, before my husband and I married, he was studying law and that really took a toll on our relationship. We had to work things out if we wanted to last. There were times we didn't have time to see each other. I really had to be extra understanding. There was a time that i had a lot of free time, where he, the opposite. What I did was go to his school and stayed with him until the end of class then we had dinner together. In other words, I didn't wait for him to make all the ways of being together. I did my part. We fought a lot but then, I guess we really wanted to make things work so we always ended up making up. We have now been married for 4 years with a beautiful two year old daughter. 
@gracemanotoc (641)
• Japan
30 Sep 08
toxic relationship is a relationship when we feel that we are giving too much but nothing is happening in the relationship...or one feel that both of your energies are being sipped by one another. It's really nice relationship you have with your husband....i guess asian couple is understanding with each other. Mine is american-filipino relationship...
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
8 Oct 08
You'll know it when you come into a realization that you can have someone better. Someone who will treat you like a queen. Even the most unpleasant being in this planet has someone outthere who'll treat her like better like nobody can.
