how do you spot a commitment phobe?

Japan
September 29, 2008 11:17pm CST
I really think the man who broke my heart was a commitment phobe coz he doesn't want to get more intimate or get married. How do i spot commitment phobic men?
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@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
20 Nov 08
A commitment phobe is someone who shy away from serious talks about future plans as a couple. Someone who's more scared of impregnating you more than he should be proud of having a baby with you. Someone who plays it safe. Sometimes sweet, sometimes cold. Someone who keeps another girl around just in case something goes wrong with the two of you prior to having to commit to you. These are the dangers so i hope you learn well from mistakes. :) I should know, i was once a commitment phobe.
• Japan
21 Nov 08
so how did you change yourself from being a commitment phobic to a normal guy? What were your experiences? Did you change a lot of gf's?
@modstar (9605)
• Philippines
21 Nov 08
I had 6 girlfriends. I'm a lot more open to ladies now than before. I tell them what i really want from like if i want to go further and have a relationship with them or not. It's not really but it's a matter of how you handle things and making sure the girl won't misunderstand my actions.