i am alone cannot sleep!

I do feel it also friend and I think it is normal to feel uncomfortable especially that we get used of the thing like being together and be in one place......

as there is always some one around I can always feel when one of the people goes to work or leave the house in the middle of the night I wake up as soon as they have gone out the door . I get up and walk around to see who has left. as for missing hubby I always will its been almost 4 years since he passed away but hter is that connect that they have always been there and not any more.

[i]Hi bombshell, I haven't tried being alone here yet but when I was single, I always experienced that when my Sister and friends will be going home in our town and I will be left in the apartment, I always end up working in the PC and will not sleep because I cannot sle[/i]ep!

Hi bombshell, yes I have felt the same but am not married but my son does live with me. Often times he works nights and it seems strange without him in the house so am up really late and then go to bed, normally I am on Mylot or I try to meditate and that does send me to sleep...maybe that might help you too..meditating if you can littleowl

hi bombshell I think we all have at one time or another. I know when my son pulled an allnighter at his job. it was hard for me to sleep while I was all alone. I kept hearing noises and it bothered me although I knew the front door was locked, and nobody could bother me. I even told myself that I was not alone in this, that others were also alone but that didnt help much. I finally did get some sleep.

i always end up spending the whole night awake and then going to bed in the morning.. i cant sleep in the dark alone for some reason

I used to feelthat way till I got sperated from him for six years due to his job and then I became so self relaint that initially it was very uncomfortabe living in the same house with him. Now things have improved slightly bt still at times its annoying. We get our phases then it passes out. Now my advice t married couples is better stick together as mucha s you can before your life takes a different direction altogether.

yes i have experienced this and it is a very strange feeling, you know nothing is wrong yet you cant sleep because it is not what you are used to. I suggest reading for a while and then trying to sleep again im sure you will drift off eventually and good luck with it