How do you go about correcting your children?

United States
September 30, 2008 6:42pm CST
What do you do to correct your children if they done something wrong. I remember my mother having my father spank us when we done something wrong. Since then things have change some try to say that is child abuse now. Do you spank,put them in the corner, ground them, or just tough love. Do you do more than one of these's for different reason? Let me know your methods. Thank you and Happy Mylotting!!!!
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• United States
30 Sep 08
I don't have children, but I am one of 5 and have helped raise my nieces and nephew. I think if you can't get them to listen sometimes a spanking is the only way. pretty much it's a last resort. Personally I feel that having this huge issue with spanking being child abuse is why we have so many children, teens and young adults who do whatever they want and don't listen to anyone, they had no real consequences for their actions.
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• United States
30 Sep 08
Yes, I do agree with you. I will only use spanking as a last resort. But I feel that the parents that there children just get away with anything and don't correct there children any which way are the ones that have children so young. I am perfectly fine and my but got spanked alot when I was younger.
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• United States
1 Oct 08
Yes here we get corrected, then time out, tn grounded then last but not least spanked. And thats like are chain behavior methods. Depending on what you did to get in trouble in the frist place. You wont see me saying oh no dear you can not do that if one of my kids broke the tv or bite another child. Have to give the right correction for the right thing. You just have to use our head you dont want to go over board no more then you want to under do it. I got spanked more then I should have growing up because my mother was basicly nuts. She thought the hole world was out to ge her she drove my dad so nuts he would then spank us for her so she would shut up. He later realized she had mental issue and left her. I would have to say me and my sisters are fairly normal even having gone though that. So unless you are out of control you should have he right to spank your children ned be.
• United States
1 Oct 08
Thats about the order of how punishment goes around here.
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