Destiny or Emotions?

[i]Hi Janna, hmm....Life is full of stories like that sometimes it's a happy ending with some couple and sometimes, it's not! Love will always prevail when two people are committed to each other, because there are so many people who are in love but they are not committed and made them follow a different path! So, I will go with not very much in love but destined to each other, "love is still present and it can be strengthen by nurturing it each day"[/i]

Well if you have alot of love for the person your with and vice versa then love could prevail and you could make it through anything as long as you have love no matter the struggles of not being destined together. It could even make a couple stronger. But then in some cases that the love isn't strong enough then there is a downside love falls apart and to much happens to be able to rebuild that love and then they start blaming each other about everything..you didn't love me enough,trust me enough,etc.. I guess if they were destined to be together and didn't love each other at first that love might come slowly but will happen eventually.

destiny prevails whatever the condition is....that is what i believe...but if your hard work and determination is very strong even god cant take away anything from you. but you be what you are destined to be.that is strictly what i believe i am not trying to impose anything. have a nice day. :) take care friend.

I always believe that if you are meant to be, destiny will always find a way. Sometimes even if how much we love a person you have to make a decision between love and your partners happiness as well. I have experience that too before when my ex bf family is against our relationship. We both are from different race and they dont want him to marry someone who is not korean. I was the one who made a decision at that moment. I felt that he is torn between his love for his parents and me. I dont want to spend my life with him knowing that part of him is longing for his parents too. I realized that we really are not meant for each other and now i am happily married to a wonderful person. So i believe that we dont just make choices in life base on love alone we also have to look for our destiny as well. If i have stayed i know i wont live a happy life like what i am experiencing now. If we really are meant to be i believe we would have seen each other before i was married. But now that i am happy and the feeling i had for him is gone, i do believe that we really are not meant to be. Sometimes we think that the person we love is the right one for us but we never realized that things could change and sometimes things happen because God has something better instore for us. Destiny happens only if you will keep on searching for it.