what was the most hurting somment for you in your entire life?

Pakistan
October 2, 2008 12:43pm CST
hello pwople, can you recall what was the most hurting comment you ever had in your life??? i can recall one... and despite of all the apologies and love that person gave me i am unable to forget that comment... it still hurts the same way i when i heard it the first time.... it was from my most loved person and we had a big fight and he said " if a person is not good in her looks she should be good in her nature, and you are the worst in both" i felt like dying at that moment and when ever i recall it its still hurts like hell...and i feel like dying
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• India
3 Oct 08
im really sorry 4 dat...but these things r let out by ppl in their anger....yet it hurts terribly when the person u love a lot goes against you due to the intervention of other ppl...once it so happened that i calld dis person i love..bak den we were js frends....n his frnd recvd n we joked arnd 4 a while....n then d mattr ws presented 2 hm in such a way....that he decided not 2 talk 2 me again..n evn took 2 calling me a s-l-u-t!!!!!!!!1even though he apologised tried 2 mk up.....n we r deeply committed..yet i can neva 4get dat day......
• Pakistan
3 Oct 08
ooo... that is very hurting, i wonder how can anyone become so uncontrollable that he cannot control his words
@potrish78 (742)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
Oh my! That really hurts. I just wish that people might be able to control what they say especially when they are angry. Cuz oftentimes the goal of the conversation when you are fighting is to hurt the person you are fighting with. And no matter how much you love the person, it does really linger when you say something hurtful like that. And even if you don't really mean it, the harm has already been done. As for me, the most painful comment that someone has ever uttered to me was from my former boss. it goes like "You are nothing! You are just pure words and no actions!" (It's a lot painful in my native language. Apparently, there's no direct translation to English.) After a week, I received an award.
• Pakistan
3 Oct 08
ohh wow... that must be very hurtful... and yes you are right that damage is done
@shana123 (2095)
• India
3 Oct 08
Hey come on saroodebolan , just you analyze yourself whether what you did was right or wrong , even if you were wrong that comment was too strong to be done by your loved one , but see who have the rights to scold us and hurt us? only loved ones dont they? then come one take it light , dont get depressed. When my guy told that he haven't met a girl like me lol, i realized that i was wrong , he felt bad when i apologized still now, even if i fight he forgives me you know why , because of the former instance :) ..
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• Pakistan
3 Oct 08
yaa i think that is the positive thing which can been seen only by optimistics :)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
I have a friend and I've done a lot of favors for her. I can say that I've been a good friend to her because I was at her side when she had problems. I always make an effort to reach out to her and grow our friendship but after everything she still doesn't see that. One time she confronted me and told me, "I HATE YOU. I wish you weren't my friend at all." That really hurts. I don't know what's with her but after that I just tried avoiding her.
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• Pakistan
3 Oct 08
that is good you start avoiding her... that was really mean of her to say that
• India
3 Oct 08
Well, I was truely shocked which i still remember when one of my math teacher called a headless donkey. I felt so bad. It still haunts me. But the positive effect was that i became good in math. But i still get very much upset when I remember that statement.
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• Pakistan
3 Oct 08
ohh God... teachers should not behave like that
@cgobble (171)
• United States
2 Oct 08
Hmm... I don't know why but there sure have been some hurtful moments in my life. But I have to say, I can't pinpoint which one might have been most painful. I guess I'm just a big believer in suffering is good for the soul and builds character. Harsh words equals tough skin. So I'm sorry that someone said something like that to you, and that it hurts you so badly. Believe me, I'm not insensitive to that. I would just have to say that there are too many moments and comments like that have run the span of my life to be recalled in any way but a vague blur. Yeah it's unfortunate, but it's help me to take almost everything everyone says with a grain of salt.
• Pakistan
3 Oct 08
its a good thing in you, but the comments from your loved ones hurt the most... and they leave deep scars
@navtech (1773)
• India
3 Oct 08
Dear saroodebolan, I had a very hurting moment in life that was when I was working as Chief Accounts Officer in a company, this had happened. I was asked to interiview for Receptionst among 12 girls. Most of them I found unable to talk properly. Among them I recruited on girl for the post of Receptionst. She joined and worked. One day one of my colleaque came and told me that the Receptionst complained to my boss that he was misbehaving with her. I was shocked because my colleaque against whom she complained one of the most respected person in our organisation and about his behaviour and character nobody can question. I went to my boss and asked him what was the complaint against my colleaque. My boss narrated the story. I was really shocked to hear the story. My boss also knows sthe Receptionst made a false complaint against my colleque inspite of that he was supported her and suspended my colleque for 3 days. This really hurts me and also hurts me today also. Subseuquently after three months the receptionst stolen money large amount of money from the my boss's drawer and put the blame on somebodyless. This time she was caught because the hidden video camera revealed the fact who stole the money. She was sacked. Some people born with mental setup that they never be happy nor allow others to be happy.
• Pakistan
3 Oct 08
ohh my God how can people be so mean
@kymommy72 (588)
• United States
2 Oct 08
The most hurtful moment in my life was when my mother passed away. She had been sick for a long time, so we all knew it was going to happen. As prepared as I thought I was, I found out you can never truly prepare for such a thing. I was the most awful, hurtful moment of my life.