when you love someone...

@jhl930 (3603)
United States
October 3, 2008 3:44pm CST
i have a friend who plays music for a living and hes on the road all of the time and he says that its always tempting out there with all of the other women and not having anyone know about it a lot of times except for you so no one would ever find out and its always tempting when your girlfriends at home, and he says that he loves her but i am in a relationship and i have never been tempted to cheat, and i just don't understand if he really loves her how could he be tempted...so i was just wondering when you love someone and you really love them is there temptations out there for you? i want to thank you for taking the time out of your day to come by and read and review my discussion, and hopefully answer, i hope that you all have had a great week and that you have a happy and safe evening and weekend, thanks again for taking the time to come by!
3 responses
@belk89 (1103)
• Philippines
3 Oct 08
Temptation is everywhere. Even if you love someone you cant still avoid it that sometimes there are things that tempt you to do something wrong. It is a matter of fighting for it for the sake of your love for someone. To cheat is wrong wither she sees it or not is it wrong in the eyes of men and God. Even if her gf is blind about the affair if ever he will decide to try cheating on her it is his conscience who will continue to haunt him for the bad things he did.
@jhl930 (3603)
• United States
4 Oct 08
i agree with that but honestly i have been tempted to do things but nothing that would hurt her like cheating so thats why i was wondering, thanks for taking the time to reply!
@Humbug25 (12551)
4 Oct 08
Hello jhl930 Temptation is all around us in one form or another and at the end of the day it is down to us if we give in to temptation or not! In my 10 year marriage I never looked at another man in that way even though my husband was absolutely horrible to me, I never strayed!
• Philippines
4 Oct 08
yes definitely, it doesnt mean that if you love someone then you will never be tempted. Temptation will always be present everywhere you go but the main essence is how will you control that temptation or stay away from it for your love one . If you are already commited and you love someone then you must control yourself to stay away from this to show your love from her.