Men,are they all the same?

Hi celestos, i would said no one is the same in this world, regardless women or men. But i do believe and said there really have good women/men around us. They are faithful to relationship regardless any situation. For me, cheat is related to attitude or behavior, thus i believe with time, it will shows and proof most of the things. If you are still searching, I believe someday somewhere you may find and know someone faithful. So cheers.

This is the only question from the rest you have stated that I can answer, men cheat because its the easiest process and somewhat a cheaper way escape (compared to divorce and/or annulment procedure) from a "disastrous, unhappy marriage/relationship" as how cheating men would describe/justify their deed.

I think most men have that common ground of what your question asks...but in relationships its reassuring to know that the person u are with knows these faults and is genuinely changing. As much as i love Homer Simpson i wouldst want to be tied down with a guy that has his characteristics!

I am sure it goes both ways, with men and women. I do not know what it is though. My first husband was a cheater, my second not. Maybe it is the thrill of doing something and seeing if they can get away with it. There are some good men who do not or would not cheat, finding them is the hard part. Dont't think that it is because of you, you are okay, it is them that have the problems. Wish you luck.

mean cheat if u dont satisfy thm or u cheat on thm or they feel giulty and need pleasure

Yes, i believe men can be faithful, and i personally think that men cheat, because they feel like they have control over the women that they are with. I am 20 and have only dated one guy. standards that i consider looking at is, how he approaches you, where you met him, and how he talks about women. There are many good men out there but i think we women have to be GOOD women if you want a GOOD men! women are the same as well but are more good at hiding it than men.

Well from my personal experience not all men are the same. I have been married now for 9 years, and was with my husband for 2 years before that. Now I do know alot of men that are the cheating type but I guess I got lucky. You just have to be more picky. Men cheat I think because they are not as able to commit as women are. Good luck on your quest to happiness.