neverending forgiveness

Philippines
October 4, 2008 3:31am CST
one thing i would like to change in my attitude is for trusting people right away. i always trust people especially to someone i have fallen and ended up crying. it really pissed me off when i gave my trust to someone and then that someone would brake my heart but still i'll forgive that someone and trusting again and again and again brake my heart into pieces again, the same way, forgive,,,forgive,,,forgive,,,. urrghh!
3 responses
@chiyosan (30184)
• Philippines
12 Oct 10
you are giving too much of yourself. Sometimes, you have to also take a step back and think of yourself as to how you want others to treat you... it is alright to forgive and its normal... but the moment you let people, or this person treat you as someone they could hurt over and over again... they will just expect the same thing - they will be forgotten, with a clean slate everytime. I would suggest that you control this part of you to forgive and let him take advantage of this weakness of yours.
@soulist (2985)
• United States
26 Mar 09
I think I am a little too trusting as well. I trust people and then forgive them when I am hurt, but then they still lose my trust and if they hurt me again I would still forgive them because what is the point of not forgiving?
• Philippines
17 Oct 08
don't you know that when you forgive, it gives you an overwhelming feeling...and forgiving someone means you are giving a person a chance to realize how stupid he was?!