Need tips to give to a first time mother

First thing, I want to know if your friend goes to OB-Gyne for check-up? If not, tell her to do so because doctors know exactly how to make things easier for her. She'll be given leaflets and books to read about pregnancy, delivery and post natal problems and solutions. You can't expect her not to worry since it is going to be her first child. However, telling her stories of other mothers who gave birth safely will surely calm her down... I hope this will help. Regards!

first of all congrats to your friend :) tell her that it's just normal for first time mom to be scared but she has nothing to be scared of. be glad that in a few weeks from now she will be a mom and that she will have the cutest baby ever.