love at first sight

India
October 5, 2008 3:44am CST
is it true that love at first site occurs or is it a myth . many books and movies show stories of love at first sight. are they all fake. i don't think it is possible . how can you love someone until you don't know completely about them? have you ever experienced this type of feeling at any point of your life? crushes are possible at first sight but love ? i don't think so. but many of my friends say that it is possible i don't know exactly about them, but they say they have experienced that type of feeling at first where you feel like this is the boy/girl whome you can spend whole life. i say how do you know that? what if it is wrong? keep guessing guys.
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21 responses
@jelai24 (221)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
nothing possible in this called love....maybe other felt this way...but me i can't experience like that loz...
6 Oct 08
Well, i think it could might as well be true. I've known a few which has that.
• India
6 Oct 08
my friend, this is not possible in the true sense. Yes you are right, that how can we love a person whom we don't know clearly, with whom, we have not just spend our single moment..... if it looks that it is happening to you, you are loving or liking such a person, then it is just effectuation, nothing else...
@ganda8831 (816)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
I dont believe in love at first sight. But i do believe in attraction at first sight. It happens that when you see a person for the first time, you want to be with that person because you might find her very beautiful. You want to know more about her and get to know her. But to be inlove with her, not knowing anything about her, the first time you lay your eyes on her, is just impossible.
@eigna9187 (113)
• United States
5 Oct 08
i think its all fake. love at first sight cant happen..i mean love develops from getting to know someone..not from just looking at someone.. i think that if someone thinks they are "in love at first sight"..it is just lust and they are really attracted to them.
@PrarieStyle (2486)
• United States
5 Oct 08
Though I don't believe in love at first site, I do believe in attraction at first site. How could you possibly love someone just from looking at them. There are a lot of attractive people who commit terrible crimes and are horrible people on the inside. What most people don't seem to understand is that love isn't some uncontrollable thing that happens to you. Love is a choice.
@marty3888 (2358)
• United States
5 Oct 08
I agree with you that you can't love someone that you don't know. I think that what happens is, they're attracted to someone, maybe they get to know them and as it turns out, they're right for each other so they say I knew I loved her the first time I saw her. But thjey didn't actually love them until they got to know each other.
5 Oct 08
I dont know about true love but u can feel an attraction for someone and it might be love. I thought i was in love with someone b4 love at first sight but it just doesnt work that way. Me I would say there is sometimes but not very often.
@lql0360 (31)
• China
5 Oct 08
Most kf love at first sight appear in the film,I think there are a lot of lives ,many of the boys to see their dreams,began to recover their own feelings of people.
• Indonesia
5 Oct 08
Well, I think I agree with you. Maybe what people call love at the first sight is an excitement of finding someone who phisycally meet their criterias and they become interested to that person. Once they know the personality, if it match with their ideals, they'll come along together happily. If not..you guess.. But I do believe true love..It's about accepting and being accepted.
@Metalchick (1391)
5 Oct 08
I'm a little sceptical on this subject and although i'd like to believe whole heartedly that love at first sight does occur i'm inclined to say in some cases with me it's more like lust at first sight. After all at first sight of another you are only seeing their appearance and are only drawn to the physical look of the person. On further acquaintence you might find out their a tiresome, horrible person. In past experiences I have often seen men that have stirred something in me but wouldn't say it caused me to go head over heels straight away and want to marry the guy.
@ksp4urs (78)
• India
5 Oct 08
may be it is possible..some case only......not most up cases... hope for the best.. LOve at First sight..... :)
@yenwie84 (1345)
• Malaysia
5 Oct 08
Love at first sight can always happen around us. We need to have the love and feelings at the first sight before we can proceed to have interest in getting to know more about the person. Do you agree with me? This is what I am thinking all along. It's impossible for us to want to know about someone whom we don't have any feeling about. Hence,love at first sight is always possible. Lol.
@chengbeb (285)
• Philippines
5 Oct 08
Love at first sight does happen. I can't clearly explain how it feels but it's like when you first meet a person and there's a certain chemistry between you two. It's like you've known each other for so long and that you can't bear not see that person. That for me is love at first sight. It maybe strange but it does happen.
• Philippines
5 Oct 08
we cannot describe it but you will know if you experienced it yourself. whatever it is, its not about right or wrong, but its how you handle thae situation and to be responsible in every decision or move that you take.
• Philippines
5 Oct 08
we describe it but you will know if you experienced it yourself. whatever it is, its not about right or wrong, but its how you handle that situation and to be responsible in every decision or move that you take.
@raxerdis (132)
5 Oct 08
i dont think it possible but ye i know some ppl too hows thinking its possible
• Malaysia
5 Oct 08
Love at first sight is possible and it does exist. Some of my friends do really have that experience and have get marriage for years. Of course, it depends on how both of the parties to maintain the relationship, but the fact is they really get intact for the first sight. Somehow is really make sense where if on first sight, the girl/boy giving you a bad impression, the chances of getting together would be very low. How also, is also a luck where you could have experience that in life. All the best pal.
• Philippines
5 Oct 08
Hi, Tousif! Unlike you, I believe that love at first sight happens. I heard many true to life stories of it already. However, not all of those stories end well. There are some that after their further exploration and effort, the love that they have bloomed until it turned out to be an everlasting love. There are also some stories that did not last long. Maybe because eventhough they try hard to make it work, the foundation is not enough. Nonetheless, I also believed that love at first sight should be given the chance to flourish. Love is like a gamble, anyway. As the famour saying goes, "It's better to love and lost than to never love at all." Regards, Mr. Tousif!
• Philippines
5 Oct 08
Hi, Tousif. Unlike you, I believe that love at first sight happens. There are many true to life stories I heard about it. But, not all of those stories end well. Some of them explore and study each other until the love blooms and eventually turned out to be an everlasting love. There are stories, however that did not flourished. Maybe because the basis of their love, as you say, is not that deep. There is not enough foundation. But still, love at sight should also be trusted and given a chance to grow. Regards, Tousif!