How to handle rejection? / myLot

Philippines

October 5, 2008 11:44pm CST

Example: So there you area at the deli, getting a ham sandwich, when that person you're attracted to comes and stand next to you at the counter. You've seen him over and over again, and finally you have the guts to turn and smile at him... and they do nothing in return. He almost look right through you like you don't exist. So you grab your sandwich and run out of there as quickly as you can, saying to your self, " I will never do that again. This doesn't work. Is This the best way to deal a rejection? How do you personally deal with rejection?

2 responses

Anchopy

@Anchopy (1453)

• Paraguay

16 Oct 08

I don't think that was a rejection.. you should do it again, or the next time say hi or something like that.. but if that person is still indifferent to you then you should ask the reasons for that... I think that everyone deserves at leash the "Hi" or a smile, but if nothing happens then the other person has serious issues with his/her life.. if something bad comes out from his/her mouth then you should only wish to that person to have a good trip to hell..

@savitha_r86 (904)

• India

6 Oct 08

Let me be the first to reply to ur post!! :) Personally I have no experience in this(Perhaps hav not had that much guts :-P) A very delicate issue,will not able to share it with others since it is a question of self respect also :D I wud sit and write a long letter to myself hearing some gud music,wud finally draw to a conclusion that I DESERVE SOMEONE REALLY BETTER :D