how do you feel about a person cursing every word they say?

@annjilena (5620)
United States
October 5, 2008 11:47pm CST
their are people out there that curse every word they say can,t start the smallest conversation without cursing.then they wonder why their kids curse kids pattern from what thye hear and see. how do you feel about this?
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@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
6 Oct 08
not right to cuss every word ya say . need to clean up a potty mouth. and yup kids pick it up fast when young. If I slip my grand daughter tells me I musnt use the word again she is learning now which are the bad words. and that they shouldnt be said.
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@annjilena (5620)
• United States
6 Oct 08
you are right because not only is it bad for our chacter it,s bad for us to say them in front of our kids.it,s not the fact that we are judging anyone but the fact is that it doesn,t sound good period
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@Lakota12 (42681)
• United States
7 Oct 08
Speacaily dont like the F word and I never ever use it.
@locke49 (66)
• United States
6 Oct 08
Often times, I find it humorous. It is never something that I would do, but I just laugh at people (usually to myself). If only people who swore so much knew how stupid and uneducated they sound. Don't get me wrong though - I appreciate curse words and think they have a valuable place in the English language. When used at the right times, they can add good effect to what you're trying to say. But people who use them all time...well...they're just doing a disservice to everybody who values their effect.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
6 Oct 08
thats true it really makes you look uneducated and it put a damper on their personality.you can say what you need to say without all that.most of the time people don,t say anything they just look at them and say to themselves wow do they have to speak this way.
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• United States
6 Oct 08
It doesn't bother me when someone cusses often, even every sentence. It sounds to me like an accent or lisp. It's just a way someone talks, just like how people from the south use words people in the north don't usually use. I don't find cussing to be offensive. They're just words used for emphasis. And I've never seen an obsessive cusser be surprised that his or her children turn out with the same vernacular.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
6 Oct 08
when i went to new york they told me i sounded funny i sounded country i said iam coutry iam from the south.but when i went to egypt they said i sounded funny where was i from i told them.they say i sounded like i was nto from there so you can see why people, would be offended by all this cursing it don,t make you look important at all actly it lower yourself worth.
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@jammyt (2822)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
I find them "disturbed" and then I start thinking why they are like that and how they were brought up. And I even think of how they feel about how people perceive them. Specially when they have their kids with them. I can't help but shake my head at times.
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@annjilena (5620)
• United States
6 Oct 08
hello jammy ,how are you? i too think it is really bad when you have your children with you. and you letting every dirty word come out your mouth right in front of your children.then when their children say it we are ready to spank them. kid do what we do they copy after us especially small children.
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@patzel88 (3311)
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
some people dont want to hear a words that they dont like to hear thats why they curse people.
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@annjilena (5620)
• United States
6 Oct 08
i think some people don,t have respect for themself are anyone else maybe it,s a lost for words is why they curse.
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@Lee_Rites (845)
• United States
6 Oct 08
I think older people who curse a lot don't place much value on how other people think of them. Why should they anyway? What someone thinks of you is not going to change who you are. It won't change what is in your heart. I think younger people who curse a lot may have been brought up that way or they just think it makes them cool. Either way, if the way someone talks will cause you not to want to be around them, just don't be around them.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
6 Oct 08
what about your chidren if you curse every word you say do you not be around your child because you can,t control your mouth.it,s not fair to the child and when they start repeating what you say do this mean they have no value because they learned from their parent these bad word do this mean they are not a good person.
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• United States
6 Oct 08
I agree that people should watch what they say around children. I do not think that people that curse do not have values. I believe that many of these people do not care what other people think of them. I try not to judge anyone based on superficial details. I know other people see it differently, but cursing is a superficial detail. I have known educated people who curse a lot. If you honestly believe that people who curse are always ignorant, uneducated people than that is your opinion. There are also people who believe that someone who speaks with an accent are ignorant. Personally, I think you can not get a good indication of someone's character by the way they speak.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
6 Oct 08
i know some people cannot speak well but they can curse well first impression is everything.if you want someone to understand you then you must speak well so they can understand you.
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@salonga (27830)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
I could hear a lot of people do that and it makes me sad because they just don't know how to speak with grace. They make fun cursing...it is part of their everyday conversation...it's part of their system...their life! How sad. I'm affected when I hear people around talking that way.. I am not pleased. Whenever someone talks to me using cursing even with simple conversation just to make fun...I'd always rebuke him... by telling that he/she needs not curse because it irritates my ear and I don't like children to hear and immitate cursing. In our home cursing is a No,No and I am so glad!
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
7 Oct 08
speech has to be season with salt if not the speech can become bitter to the hearer .
• India
6 Oct 08
oh yes i have known of people who do swear every sentence, whther they are alone or with kids around... i do not really care for such people to be honest...you get a bit disgusted after a while...and gets ambarressing to associate with them.
@annjilena (5620)
• United States
6 Oct 08
some of them are loud and want to be notice in public saying all theses nasty things.what happen to keeping it clean can we still talk without saying bad words if not we need to upgrade our vocabulary
@kaka135 (14115)
• Malaysia
13 Dec 08
I really don't feel comfortable when I heard people cursing, I actually find it a bit rude to curse. Also, it's definitely not good for the kids. Kids always learn from the adults. Sometimes when I saw young kids curse a lot, I understand that it may not be their faults, perhaps the parents do the same too.