can you help

United States
October 5, 2008 11:55pm CST
i am in love with a woman who is about 12 years older than me and i don't no what to she is so beautiful we like the sane things,man she is one womderful Lady,she loves music happy all the time,but she said we should be friends what should i do?
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8 responses
@LadyMarissa (12160)
• United States
6 Oct 08
As you CANNOT force someone to love you...Be her friend first & then give her time to learn to love you for the wonderful person you are!!!
• China
6 Oct 08
Age is not a problem. If you love her and she is single, you should try you best to let her know.
• United States
6 Oct 08
what ever you do,or how ever this goes,do not confuse unconditional love,with lust,because you may be fooling yourself..I would keep the friendship going and work hard at the love part,to see where she might want to take the relationship,if infact it is Love and not lust.
@ongtina (1232)
• Singapore
20 Oct 08
How old are you? Is it because you are young and girls your age are still learning how to look beautiful that you are attracted and mistake for love? Love should be thought of in long term. Think down 12 and 24 years. If you think down the time of how you both will look and feel you might feel repel or be attracted elsewhere then I suggest you keep the relationship as friends.
• United States
18 Oct 08
follow your heart!
• India
12 Oct 08
did u asked that she loves u or not ? if she loves u then there should be no age problem because in love we dont see the age and if she love u then whats the problem and if she dont love u and she said u to be just friend then u cant force her to be ur love u can share ur vellings with her by this u would get ur answer and best of luck
@shooie (4985)
• United States
8 Oct 08
Well if she think you should just be friends go with that for awhile then make your No but really age shouldn't be an issue because it is just a number it is just a way to document how may years you been I'm 7 years older than my husband. It isn't a big deal to us. We have a lot in common and well we look the same age as well. His family thought he was older than me. lol My mom was 10 years older than my father. Age should not be an issue. Tell her how you feel or ya know invite her out for a date and go from there.
• United States
6 Oct 08
Age really doesn't matter, my significant other is 14 years older than myself, but we love eachother and have a wonderful relationship. If this woman says she's not interested in pursuing anything other than friendship, then pursue friendship, form a relationship then there's no telling where it could go from there.
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
Well we both know nothing will happen if you dont give it a shot right? So I suggest that you should try if she says NO then so be it. Im sure you will find someone and the world has a large scale of women so somewhere out there there will be definitely a good lady for your picking.