Would you marry someone who isn't financially stable?

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@iskayz (5420)
Philippines
October 6, 2008 5:36am CST
When it comes to tying the knot, how much does money really matter? You have the love. You have the commitment. You even have all the clues that put your couplehood on cosmic sync. But without money, how willing are you to say "I do"? Please do share!
3 responses
• Philippines
6 Oct 08
yeah. i think the financial position of the person is not important as long as he works hard to counter his financial instability. i will help him too so he doesn't have to carry the whole world. lol
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@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Hi! Good attitude you have too. Willingness to help the person you love become financially stable could make a lot of difference. It can improve your living conditions much faster. It will also strengthen the relationship even more. Thanks for sharing!
• Philippines
18 Apr 09
thanks for choosing my response as the best.=D
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
6 Oct 08
if i loved someone the money ouldn't make a difference as long as he working & trying. now if he was just a bum & wouldn't work that would be a horse of a different clor. i can't stand lazy people & wouldn't even considered marrying someone like that.i have always worked hard & i woulde expect the same out of him.
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@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
7 Oct 08
Yeah I kinda agree with you. If I can see that my partner is trying his best to become financially stable it would be ok for me to marry him. As long as he has a current at the time he proposed I would yes. Besides, we have the choice to have our wedding that would fit in our budget.
@ANTIQUELADY (36440)
• United States
7 Oct 08
i personally don't see spending big bucks on a wedding that's just me. i'd rather put it in on something like a home, furniture etc. a big wedding doesm't make youany more married than a small one does. around here some of the biggest ones don't last too long.my friends went into debt for their daughter's wedding. i wouldn't do that.
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@jheLaichie (4438)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
well for me, i still dont know. my boyfrined now isnt financially stable but hopefully soon he will be but i dont know when. and what if well plan on getting married??? could we cover it all up? but lifes a gamble, guess ill just have to take that gamble.
@iskayz (5420)
• Philippines
20 Apr 09
Hi jhe! Yeah, take the gamble if you really love your boyfriend. There's nothing sure in this world. No one really knows even ourselves that we're gonna have a good future. We just have to continuously work and sweat to gain success. Good luck!