weddings

Why can't you have them both? Have your best friend as maid of honor and your future sister in law as a bride's maid. The worst thing you would have to do is find another guy to be a groomsman. Your sister in law should understand your desire to have your best friend as your maid of honor and be perfectly content as a brides maid. If not, have your fiance make her the "best person" instead of having a best man!

I would bring them both into the wedding party. I would make my best friend my maid of honor and my fiancee's sister a bridesmaid.

it is your wedding do what you want!

Maybe I am just selfish but I say, my wedding, my choice.

well I would if I could afford it to have both otherwise that is really up to you seeing it is your wedding day not only his, it is a bit difficult but I would tell him that it is my choice

see, marriage duties is starting to show. Compromise. Although on my case, it was husbands best friend or my brother lol I gave in since only few on my husband's side were there. And i gave the duty of my secondary sponsor to my brother. But a week or two before the wedding, my husband changed plans due to business so, my brother came right back into a groomsman.

I had the same dilemma when picking my bridesmaids... but i just chose who I wanted and he chose who he wanted for his guys...

It's your wedding, do what you want. They'll get over it.

I would let both of them be part of the wedding party. That's what I did when I got married. They we're both my bridesmaids.