I was betrayed by 1 member of the family and it ruin everything!! a story..
By dorothy09
@dorothy09 (1520)
Philippines
October 7, 2008 3:05am CST
We have a close family friend, the whole family was considered to be like sisters and brothers, no blood relation but we treat each other as relatives ,a family.
Since childhood I grew up seeing my auntie and uncle and their children with my family always in gatherings and occasion.
My auntie and Uncle's children eventually became like an older sister and older brother to me , I am 24 years now, for more than 20 years of harmonious relationship was ruin because of a insecure family member.
Such incident happen because of insecurities, mis communication and wrong judgement. One of the children is just so prejudicial..he stab us and tell false story to his family. Which in turn build a gap between us.
Well, blood is thicker than water as they say. False information they gather they take it seriously, because one member of the family told so without any proof just hearsay. We hear their false stories and I myself confronted the family. I was strong enough because I believe I am right and my family did not do anything against them.
I was so hurt as well as my mom. I cannot believe what they did to us and think us like stupid people.
Yes the issue was over and they knew that my family did not do anything against them, they are guilty and good thing they apologize and were sorry. They scolded the son for the false information he told to the family. They sincerely asked apology. But I WAS SO HURT. My family accept the apology but the relationship are not like before.
Although I have forgiven them but my trust and our good relationship was ruin. I cried and cried why must that incident happen. I have forgiven them but until now I cannot forget what they have done to me and to my family. I still cannot believe they have made false stories to us. I wish I could turn back time and forget right away what happen. I wish I can bring back the harmonious relationship we had.
1 response
@msedge (4011)
• United States
31 Dec 08
I feel for you because i once betrayed also by i thought a member of our family, i thought a sister since she got married with my brother but she made up things against me that almost ruin my life.Its been almost three years but still fresh for me.I wish the pain she had caused me will turn back to her so that she could feel it also.I know God is fair.He will do it for me.I can't guarantee i could forgive her.Only time can tell or never.I tried to forget but how can i?She almost destroy my life and if she did,what will happen to my daughter?And i hate her so much....I am just human and i can't control the hatred.I know God can understand and forgive me for feeling that way.


