is this for real

I have had a relationship with someone that I worked with before. When it ended it was very hard to get past it and have a normal work relationship. I tried to avoid him. But it did not work. Time was the key to it getting better.i would never give up my job over it though. No man is worth giving up a decent job over.

Kaesta, There are times that you have to make drastic changes in your life. When your heart is broken it's best to clear away certain things that hold memories that hurt you. Often, your job may be one of them. But, my advice to anyone who has a job to hang on to it. We are living in troubling times and I don't see it getting better very quickly.

Is this person that she loves at the work place and do they work really close. If so they never should have gotten involved in the first place, that is why lots of companies have rules that you cannot become involved with co workers, but if she is very uncomfortable she should talk to him, or her. I would not want to leave my work because someone made me feel bad, i would try to resolve the problem, but if it a job where she can just leave and find a better job or go back to school then it might be the best decision of her life. Good luck to them.

i wouldn't let them run me off. i'd stay there & show them what i was made of/

there are no reason why you should leave the work place. you loved someone and that person rejected you... and that does not mean that you should leave that place. well one should think in a wider perspective.... it is certain that you get hurt and you feel like people are talking all sort of things about that. but you should think that you loved someone... you did no crime and what if you do not get that person..... rejection in no way qualifies that there was any adulteration to your love that you showed. may be that person loves someone else. it is true that it hurts... but buddy you loved someone... it is a pure thing.. there is no need to worry it is no crime... you have committed no theft.. no murder. so there is no reason to leave the work place.

Well depression is common in this busy world..though its bitter fact. So dont take it emotional to heart and try to come out of the past. Please dont give up confidence. Do yoga, you will feel a great heal and confidence. God bless you friend! Things will be better soon, dont give up.