Why are there fights even we have love?

Nepal
October 7, 2008 10:32am CST
I see every relationship has fights and misunderstanding, even there is love. Why is this? What about you? do you have fights? If its love then why there is fight. If so then you must called it is love... Good love... Do you?
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• Canada
7 Oct 08
Every relationship does have their fights and it's only normal. He does something that she doesn't like or she doesn't do something and he wanted her to and so on. Sometimes my bf and I fight over his behaviour (or lack there of it), or we fight because we have different views and sometimes his views hurt me or my views hurt him. This helps us build a stronger relationship because we know how the other reacts to certain situations and this keeps the bond together when we learn how to compromise. Just because you LOVE the other person doesn't mean that they don't say or do things that are hurtful to the other one. You have to let them know that it hurts and then you can try to stop doing it. After fighting, if you can work things out, say sorry and still want to be with one another, then that's REAL LOVE. If you just give up because you are going through a rough time then it obviously isn't true love. Love and fights go hand in hand...if you didn't have fights then you would'nt be able to learn from your love and grow stronger in your relationship.
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• India
7 Oct 08
that was so positive girl.. tc.. all the best in life..
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• United States
7 Oct 08
I couldn't agree more with your last sentence. Well put. =)
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• Nepal
7 Oct 08
rvfreeman, can u clearify why u r satisfied with the last line of liltunergirl. I'm completely satisfied from her answer.
• Malaysia
7 Oct 08
there are fights in every relationships as long as both parties love each other. Both parties invested feelings on each other, and if they actually do not care about each other, would they be bothered to fight? They would not even bother to inform or tell the person that the things they do and somethings are not okay to them. You tell the person you love you don't like something so that the other person knows, so that you guys will have an agreement to that something. With that fight or discussion comes the agreement or the mutual understanding so that the relationship grows stronger.
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• India
7 Oct 08
i dont think fights are bad.. they only happen with people you love because you care for the actions of the other person.. and then understand each other better.. i think love increases after the fights.. it helps us get closer..
• China
7 Oct 08
love not means we can bear everything. i found the deeper you love your partner, the more you will care about. we know no body is perfect, no love is perfect, so there must be misunderstand, if there is misunderstand and the two can't forgive each other, they will fight maybe. i always quarrel with my boyfriend, and sometimes fight with him because we love each other so much, we can bare any mistake
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• United States
7 Oct 08
I think every relationship is going to have it's fights. I also believe it's healthy to fight every now and then in a relationship to remind each other how much you love each other. Me and my boyfriend fought today, but afterwards the rest of the day was like the best day I've ever had. It brought us closer. The important thing is that even through fights and arguments you have to keep the important stuff in mind, and that's your love for each other. Love can fix and end any fight that may come along.
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